Hi guys, Ive got a problem and Im hoping someone can help me out because Ive been freaking out lately. Before I begin I want everyone to know that I know Ive messed up and I know Ive been stupid. Im just trying to get answers now so please be nice and don't troll...
Im fearing pregnancy. Ive been stupid, I know... My bf and I haven't been using protection because the condoms his mom got him were way too small. I should know because Ive seen him try to put them on, it looks painful as hell just to watch. He's a good guy, and would not want to lie to me just to get laid. He isn't like that. But we've used the pull out method though I know that's not 100% effective. I know about pre-cum. Im not gaining weight, not really experiencing nausea, Im always tired but that's normal for me. Ive taken 2 pregnancy tests from the store and both came back negative. Plus Ive been having my period. Sometimes the blood looks darker, like that brownish hue you get toward the end of your period? Ive been feeling bloated, and my stomach looks different at least to me. Occasionally I feel like I haven't eaten in a while, or rarely do I feel slight pain or a nerve. My breasts aren't tender but they're softer than I remember at least I think they do. I can't really tell because I can't remember what it all felt like before this scare. My parents know nothing about me no longer being a virgin thus know nothing about this.
Im not really sure what to do.. So anyone have any answers please? I could really use some... T~T
What is your question? Is it, "am I pregnant?"
Not if you are having normal periods, which it sound like you are. Your other symptoms are NOT specific enough to suggest pregnancy.
When did you take the home test? You need to wait at least 2 weeks after having sex before using them.
The "pull-out" method is not a form of birth control. One or both of you needs to use some form of birth control. Don't take this wrong, but if your boyfriend is old enough to have sex then he can buy his own condoms. You could also buy them for him or you could use another form of birth control.
The odds of you getting pregnant are about 1 in 5 if you are not using protection.
Good luck.