OF COURSE THESE WORRIES WILL DISAPPEAR! It takes time, and talking to your husband about it! You are going through an imbalance and difficult time right now nothing is as it was before and you feel like everything is crashing! But it will get better, read the success stories back in the day
Thanks for your reassurance. But i am 14 months off bc now- surely i should have balanced out by now? I had my hormones checked 6 months ago an they were all regular apparently
one of the big success stories in this forum "IBelieveInUs" hadn't recovered FULLY for 1.5 years.. and at her 2 year mark she successfully came back and told everyone that its all hormones, dont think for one second its not.. try to naturally balance out your hormones by eating ORGANIC AND HEALTHY.. it all links back to your gut. Like i just had a gluten free pizza with dairy free cheese lol. And I make sure to take multivitamins every single day, B6&B12 vitamin, magnesium... I go for walks every day and make sure i get enough Vitamin D.. Also with my boyfriend, when im not in the mood to do anything sexual I just let him know.. Dont force anything, do what makes you feel comfortable in the moment! And try to explain to them, obvisouly there men and they wont understand fully, but in the end it will be worth it! Don't forget that the main success story recovered in almost 2 years! This is a traumatic experience that will make you stronger in the end, maybe even a little baby will be your miracle!
Even if my hormone tests came back normal?? I take magnesium, b complex, pro biotic an a multi vitamin faithfully every day. Il do anythin to be better. We had been tryin for a baby but this is def puttin a strain on us :-( my husband has been so good but i feel hes running out of patience, as am i :-(
Yes that has happened to many girls on here! Because doctors don't want to admit the birth control did this to you.. and you were on it for 8 years.. thats a long time.. who knows what your "normal" hormones were BEFORE the pill! Or compare them to when you were on the pill. Relationship anxiety is a very REAL thing.. and thats what you have. Anxiety is irrational/not true thoughts, they steal your joy in the moment and very much hurt your brain/soul. Your hormonal imbalanced caused you to snowball.. and now you have to try your best to pick yourself back up! If you think you will be like this forever , you are wrong! Time heals EVERYTHING. Even the worst of worst.
Hysterically crying solely because I honestly just feel bad for myself, for my boyfriend and for all the ladies who have to deal with this. It’s so heartbreaking to feel so differently about him. I love him so much but I can’t feel in love. I’ve been trying to search and find ways and reasons to feel in love again. Some times I have really great days but I can’t handle the bad ones. I’ve found ways to deal with this but I still don’t feel nearly the same as I used to before this. It’s almost as if I forgot how it was like before this. Like it never happened and I’ve just felt like this. It’s so hard to explain and it’s just such a crazy experience. Is it bad that I find clarity that I am sad right now because I know I care. Idk I just want this to end and it feels like this is the new me and there is nothing I can do about it.
Thats exactly how i feel too. How long were u on bc an how long have u been off it?? I had a perfect life up until all this happened an now i feel like my world is crashing down :-(
Will my hormones go back to "normal" naturallywith time??
I was only on it for 2 months but knew right away that as soon as it started to kick in I felt very weird
It sounds dumb to say that I was only on it for 2 months and have been dealing with this ever since I went on the pill. The only thing that’s reassuring me that it’s my hormones is that 1) it happened so suddenly 2) I lost my sex drive and then I’d get it back 3) other girls dealt with the same week long depression 4) I’m still here on this forum trying to make sense of it all. If we didn’t care we wouldn’t be here
How long have u been off it now?
I’ve been off of it for 7 months. I felt great the first month off and than right after my first period off is when this started up again.
Stress doesn't help this process anymore , you probably stressing out it's been 7 months and the fact that you are in a relationship feeling this way is very stressful. But we do know that's its hormones, I believe that but other symptoms are anxiety/OCD so we have to figure out how to tame those too .. right now I know my anxiety is untrue because the first few months it was obsessing over something else .. and right now it jumped to another thing and it's obsessing over that.. so it's trying to target all the uncomfortable areas in my life and make me feel uncomfortable
-Nikki
-Nikki
I'm going to therapy in an hour! I can't even explain how much this lady makes me feel better after every session, it's incredible. 10/10 recommend, good luck today ladies! We continue to fight like this is some game of thrones battle fml.
Nikki thats exactly what happened me too. Jan to mar i obsessed over somethin else an since then its been smethin different. I literally cannot cope much longer. My marriage is literally about to break up :-( my husband says he is fed up with me constantly goin over the same stuff an worryin unnecesarilt an he says its causing him to be depressed now :-( i dunno what to do. Iv been off 14 months. Surely it should be over by now!