I'm 17, too! I also have this issue. A bunch of blah blahs happened because of my self-consciousness and shame of my bit. But after a while of thinking about it, it isn't such a big deal. It's actually pretty awesome "in a way". (I don't want to get too detailed - if you know what I mean.) Honestly, you just have to find someone who really does care about you and connect with you if you're so worried about how they see you physically. I've got scars, too, (Long story short, I've idiotically tried squeezing the fat out of it - I was, like, 13 - and it resulted in many many scars and meds.)but I'm pretty comfy with myself. You'll get sick of worrying about it, trust me. I just hope you'll take the lively "stable" way out of your concern.
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BEST EFFING COMMENT ON THIS WHOLE THREAD. THANKS DUDE....Somehow if other women tell them to relax and not to worry they still do...but when a MAN does...it seems to go farther. Either way, all this body neurosis is just sick and sad and just goes to show how easily brainwashed people are by media and entertainment/porn (bleh) culture. We really should be more discerning with our brains but alas...we're consumers consuming c**p.
Seriously ladies..I worry too, but only in the last few years with all this body neurosis and I hate it. I hate worrying about frivilous things that really shouldn't matter when most of my sex life I NEVER worried about these things and I'm in my 40's. Suddenly because kids and porn and plastic surgeons are constantly talked about....it's effecting me and so many others. Bleh again...bleh. Sad silly and tragic.
So let's stop. Let's stop allowing insidious fools to make us feel bad about ourselves. And really, most guys are just HAPPY to be down there so long as it's healthy and clean ;)
Enjoy yourselves!!!
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You need to learn how to spell before you have sex. I mean your 13! Read a book and quit worrying about your cootch.
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You need to sit your ass down and not worry about sex right now wtf is wrong with you?
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hey I have the same thing (im 16) and the first time I was with someone who wanted to go down on me, I refused because I was too self-conscious. I had just gone down on him and he wanted to return the favor and I told him that I just didn't want him to see it because I was embarrassed of what it looked like. he told me that he literally didn't even know vaginas could be different in any way other than hairiness. I learned after that, that if you're confident, no one will even see a difference.
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I am 14 about to be 15 and i have had this problem for as long as i can remember. I have talked to people about it (just like some people have fat other places, we have it there) it normal. I used to be really self concious about until the guy i used to talk to told me that he has seen other girls with it and he thinks its normal too. I would also say ask your doctor if you are still worried.
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