My boyfriend fingered me and I'm not a virgin we have had sex in the past but while he was fingering I started bleeding not a lot but enough to notice he was going rough but he always does we didn't have sex today but when we have sex or when he fingers me he is usually pretty rough but it's the first time I've ever bleed. In the past I have masturbated and I had bleed a little this week I was supposed to get my period so we figured it was my period so I put a tampon on later tht day I went to check my tampon an I barley had any blood on it I was supposed to get my period sometime this week am I spotting or what. I'm pretty worried