I know Im gonna sound like a hypocrite but i really dont want to have sex before marriage, i am religious and my parents always stressed the importance of not having sex before marriage my whole life but roday my boyfriend fingered me and i am not bleeding, does that mean i broke the skin down there completely? I know i probably shouldnt have let him, but i did and now i am scared that i commited a sin, and i know i didnt technically sleep with him but the end result is the same :( the man i marry will feel i am not a virgin
wait im sorry i meant to say that I AM bleeding. actually a lot right now,,,, so someone please help :( i come from a culture where it is a taboo to not be a virgin (not be tight from down there) before marriage,,,,, i am realy scared now