So this girl that I really like was down to hangout and we did for a while. We were chilling watching netflix and then I made a move and started kissing her. We were both pretty into it and honestly I was fighting a raging boner the whole time. Then we went into my bedroom and kept making out. I was hard the whole time. She threw off my clothes and I went down on her. She enjoyed it a lot and I think I did alright but when we were gonna go all the way I was totally soft. I had already kind of pre-cum a little sometime in the night. I'm not gay and when I jack off I easily get hard. Please help me out. I was kind of shivering from being excited and nervous and it was pretty late.
Hi Not,
It happens to a lot of guys the first time. Anxiety will kill an erection - FAST.
Don't focus on what happened. Just try again. Do it like you did before, focus on her pleasure not yours. You should get hard easily.
Once you get past this you should be good. If you dwell on it though and worry about it it can become a problem.
Good luck