im 19.today i loss my virgin with my boyfriend.this is the first time i lost my virgin. When i do sex n i lost my virgin must blood came out but for me no blood came out just got the pain. this is the first time i lost my virgin. but why blood did not came out .I only feel the pain.still the pain but still no bloos there.can you answer why ?
please answer me . send in my email.PLease
Hi Mogana,
You do not have to bleed the first time. You may not have torn your hymen or it may have already been torn, that's the most common reason for bleeding to occur. Trauma would be another reason.
You may be uncomfortable (sore) for a few days.
Everything is OK. Hope it helps.
You do not have to bleed the first time. You may not have torn your hymen or it may have already been torn, that's the most common reason for bleeding to occur. Trauma would be another reason.
You may be uncomfortable (sore) for a few days.
Everything is OK. Hope it helps.
i live a girl with a broken hymen means that she is not a virgin. How can i know if the blood is from the broken hymen.but this is the 1st time i sex. if 1st time doing sex must the hymen will broken but for me no. I had some pain in my left ovary but i did see any blood in my vagina.why? if a girls lost virgin means must came out blood . this is the 1st time i doing sex but i dun feel any blood in my vagina but i got i still got the pain only.
can you answer me.please !!
Mogana,
Neither of those statements are true. Unfortunately some cultures have strong beliefs that are not proved medically.
Not all women have intact hymens. It can tear for a number of different reasons as you grow up by normal physical activities. Not all women will bleed their first time either.
"How can I know if the blood is from the broken hymen" - you said you didn't see blood, but usually a broken hymen would result in some blood. You can also bleed just from the trauma of having sex.
Having some pain is normal. It will go away in a few days.
Neither of those statements are true. Unfortunately some cultures have strong beliefs that are not proved medically.
Not all women have intact hymens. It can tear for a number of different reasons as you grow up by normal physical activities. Not all women will bleed their first time either.
"How can I know if the blood is from the broken hymen" - you said you didn't see blood, but usually a broken hymen would result in some blood. You can also bleed just from the trauma of having sex.
Having some pain is normal. It will go away in a few days.
sorry for i ask you again.i must know everything about this.you are true if i touch means i can feel the pain until now.i did lost my virgin means i can feel like that. my hole became large.if normal all girl who have 1st time sex means their must know the blood came out. you say not all girl the blood can came another time. if have 1st time sex means can be came pregnant. because this is the 1st time i have sex.i did not lost blood means i still virgin or i not virgin. i wan know if i do second time sex means the same thing happen the blood did not broken means what? anything wrong in my body. can you answer me. please.
Mogana,
Just because you didn't bleed does not mean you aren't normal. There are many reasons why you may not have bled and ALL of them are NORMAL.
You are not a virgin. You had sex. Regardless of whether or not your hymen is in place, you are not a virgin.
Yes you can become pregnant the first time you have sex, whether you bleed or not, it doesn't matter.
You may never EVER bleed during sex, it is NOT a requirement. It does not mean that anything is wrong with you.
Just because you didn't bleed does not mean you aren't normal. There are many reasons why you may not have bled and ALL of them are NORMAL.
You are not a virgin. You had sex. Regardless of whether or not your hymen is in place, you are not a virgin.
Yes you can become pregnant the first time you have sex, whether you bleed or not, it doesn't matter.
You may never EVER bleed during sex, it is NOT a requirement. It does not mean that anything is wrong with you.
i did had sex before this. 1st time i do also i cannot see the blood came out. how i avoid my pregnant. normally eat medicine to avoid the pregnant. got any way without eat medicine to avoid the pregnant. please can you tell me without medicine how to avoid the pregnant. i know im virgin and this is the 1st time i had sex .yea when i do sex i like trauma when i having sex. can you tell me please how i avoid my pregnant. and tell me how the feel before pregnant.
please.!
To clarify, you are no longer a virgin.
Virgins don't have to bleed the first time they have sex.
Just because you had sex does not mean you will get pregnant. There is about a 1 in 5 chance. The ONLY thing you can do after the fact is get an emergency contraceptive but you only have a few days to do it, usually 3-5 days depending upon the medication.
Virgins don't have to bleed the first time they have sex.
Just because you had sex does not mean you will get pregnant. There is about a 1 in 5 chance. The ONLY thing you can do after the fact is get an emergency contraceptive but you only have a few days to do it, usually 3-5 days depending upon the medication.