im 18 as of a few days ago, and iv begun worry alot about my penis. iv had intercourse a good many times, but with my new steady grlfriend iv begun having problems again. my parents never gt me curcumsized so until about the ag of 15 i was really convinced i was abnormal. i know well now that im not. well iv been worried that if i continue to wait to become circumsized will the pain become worse the longer i wait? and also its giving me problems with my sexual life. i mean i get arroused very easily, dosen take much effort from my other at all. but when i bring it out and go for IT every things kinda goes limp and im left looking dumb. i mean the bloody thing is pretty big once im up and going but she never really gets to do anything with it. theres also the problem of im tickelish there. iv done alot of thinking an can only think of 2 times through out all my sex life that a girl has actualy touched it. oral dosent seem to do much for me. am i like going crazy, lack of confidence or what? what do i need to do to help sustain an erection when its time?
please anyones suggestions will help
please anyones suggestions will help
You are stressing too much!!!!
Stop thinking of everything as negative and just enjoy your adventure with your partner.
You talk as if circumcision is normal and has to be done at some point.
That's BS. Where did you get that from?
NOT being circumcised is normal. Humans have had normal sex exactly the way we come out of the womb for eons.
You ask about pain getting worse. What pain? You don't say what hurts.
You also say you've had sex "a good many times" so the pain must not be too bad.
Have you been retracting your foreskin to clean under it regularly for most of your life?
Does it hurt when you do that?
Being ticklish shouldn't be much of a problem, if you really want to have sex. You just live with it.
Going soft at the wrong time is most likely "all in your head". You are stressing about it and making it happen.
Relax, have fun, enjoy sex.
Stop thinking of everything as negative and just enjoy your adventure with your partner.
You talk as if circumcision is normal and has to be done at some point.
That's BS. Where did you get that from?
NOT being circumcised is normal. Humans have had normal sex exactly the way we come out of the womb for eons.
You ask about pain getting worse. What pain? You don't say what hurts.
You also say you've had sex "a good many times" so the pain must not be too bad.
Have you been retracting your foreskin to clean under it regularly for most of your life?
Does it hurt when you do that?
Being ticklish shouldn't be much of a problem, if you really want to have sex. You just live with it.
Going soft at the wrong time is most likely "all in your head". You are stressing about it and making it happen.
Relax, have fun, enjoy sex.
i compleatly agree with njoynlife on this one. respond to his questions and we can help you further 8)