so my girlfriend is a virgin and i dont do anything she doesnt want (just so you know) but i have once rubbed her vagina and was soft (not fingered as i didnt out anything in) and she said it hurt. is this normal for her to get no pleasure?
Is she wet when you rubbed her?? You see,if she is more curios than turned on,it will hurt.Be sure she is turned on,wet and ready for your finger or penis.
I use to do so with my gf:) I am not an expert,only 14 year,but have had sex since I was 13,with girls and boys.:-)
Good luck to you both,and enjoy much sex:-D