And sex has never been the same! We used to have a great sex life and now she seems to have no libido. When we do have sex, she can still climax a couple times, but for the most part she seems uninspired. She can't stand doing some things she used to love. It is a fact she does not get as lubricated down below as she used to. Does anyone have any suggestions? This has really sucked some of the joy out of our lives.