Alright guys.. my hands are tied here and i desperately need some help! she's getting pissed off at me because im the one getting worried and asking her questions more than she is. My girlfriend has always had periods either earlier or later than expected, just for the record. We're both sixteen and we had sex twice a month ago and both times the condom popped BUT we were very careful and ate the morning afterpills straight after, they've worked before so i don't think theres any problems with the pills themselves, but this IS the first time she has had two in a month! So after a trip i got back and we had sex again .. which was about 2-3 weeks later.. and this time the condom did NOT pop! However, she helped me switch condoms in between so maybe she touched some of the sperm which wiped off of the new condom?? i don't know it might sound stupid but i desperately need answers!! Her period is now late by two weeks and i did the right thing and got her a pregnancy test which turned out to be NEGATIVE as well.. i know i might just be freaking out here when theres really nothing to worry about but i really need someone to give me their opinion on this! please reply ASAP !! i can't get this thing off my mind!
You definitely are over-stressing here, but again, better that that unwanted pregnancy. NO, she is not pregnant. Even id a tiniest bit of semen gotten on the other condom, she would have to be ovulating and that sperm would have to survive long enough... And the test, taken well after the period was supposed to come is NEGATIVE. So, I really don't see how she could have gotten pregnant.
And you know why her periods are late and irregular? Because of overuse of morning after-pills. They contain very large dose of hormones that is capable of completely messing her cycle completely - it is not a method of contraception, it's just to be used when it's really emergency, not after every sex you guys had.
thanks so much nikols!! When can i expect her to have her next period though? and will her periods return to normal after a while?? anyone?
Her periods will return to normal, but there is no way in a world anyone can tell you when her next period is going to happen. We can guess, but there is no use. ARe there any signs that she is close to getting a period?
No... not yet, that's why im really worried for her.. any advice??