girlfriend of 5 years has lost her sexdrive

brother i am right there with you, literally just got done trying to get some sexual attention from my gf of five years, all she did was push me away. its not like I'm disgusting about it, I'm actually kind of a romantic i set the mood with candles and i give her a massage, and i kiss her and every spot that is suppose to turn a woman on, and yet nothing. i feel like the times in which we do have sex are just to get me to lay off. all i know is, when i first started dating her, i felt like a stallion, i had all the women wanting me in high school. but now i feel like trash, because the only woman i want doesn't seem to want me

Hello guys, I have read most of the posts you lot wrote here.. And Damn!! Lol.. That kinda crack me up a little bit what the first guy said.. After dating for some time and sex was Damn good back then, now if his lucky he gets 1-2 times a year hahaha.. That's Fked up.. But true sadly. Unfortunately there's no one to blame. It's how it is. I been dating this girl for 4 and a half years and its the same story than you all.. It's crazy.. Frustrating and stressful.. But we can't do much other than be there for them if you love them. I know this sex thing drives us all crazy trust.. But we need to find another way in getting that sorted out other than cheating obviously. It's so hard for us lot. Specially when you love her. I hope you lot find a solution for this problem and much happiness for your future.

Dito

Guys, GET THE F*** OUT while you still can. Take it from me and many who are parents now with said anti-sexer (yes, I made that up). Your best interests are not hers. Deal with it or GTFO. After kids its worse. Accept defeat and get a fleshlight or GTFO. It does NOT get better.