Okai ..
When my boyfriend and I are trying to have sex in the cowgirl position.. We have some trouble.
He fingers me and we have a little foreplay before and i become soaked.. But he wants me to get on top which i have no problem with, I have been on top once with another guy and it hurt lika ****h but his penis just slid into my vagina..
The problem is when i get on top and i go to sit on him his penis wont go in..And he's fully erect, we tried lube and it still wont go in and i really want to get on top and ride him..
Oh i only had sex with one guy before him..
How do I get the penis to slide in so i can start 'riding'?
No you read that wrong, when i was having pain was over 2 years ago , Like the second time i had sex..I'm okai but thanks anyway..Nothing isnt hurting it just wouldnt go in.
You've done it before and you're using plenty of lube...there should be no problem. Not sure what you're doing wrong, so here's how you do it. Obviously your partner must have a hard erection and you both must be wet and well lubed. With him lying on his back on the bed, straddle his pelvis supporting yourself with one knee on either side. In this position your p***y will be spread open to receive him. His erect penis may be lying flat pointing toward his chin. As you lower yourself to mount him, you'll need to reach under and hold his penis up in a vertical position. It will not go in by itself without a little manual guidance. If he has a foreskin, make sure it is retracted. Usually his excitement will have already taken care of that and he'll be seeping lots of pre-cum. Fit the head of his penis into mouth of your vagina and slowly use your weight to take him in. If his penis is thicker than average, you may have to go slow at this point. Once you've stretched enough to get the head in you no longer need your hand to guide him. Now that he is in you can sit or rise as you like to take all of him or as much as you want. You are in control. It should never hurt if you are well lubed, even if he is huge. I assume that from here you're good to go. The beauty of this position is that you can control angle and depth of penetration to maximize the stimulation of your clitoris. It will all feel good to him. After some experience many males can last for as long as you want or need in this position so you can have all the orgasms you want. Have fun!
You might try leaning over on his chest so you can slide it in more like being in the missionary position with you on top, then just lean back/sit up after it is all the way in. My wife and I found it much easier to get in that way because my penis stood right up tight against my belly when it was erect. When she was sitting on me and it slipped out we had to do that all over again. It was so rigid in that upright position that even though I loved her riding me it would hurt if she bent backwards