I am 28 years old man with a pretty heterosexual experience. Last year I have joined the army, and since then I have homosexual thoughts. I feel unpleasant in company of other soldiers. Imagine that. Until now I have never been attracted to man, or if it sounds better, I have never had a chance to experience this kind of adventure. I am turning gay?
By reliance on your heterosexual experience, and realizing that you have had a normal sex life, I must say that I doubt that you are turning gay. In case when people had joined the army, there have been some cases when the surroundings caused the revealing of their homosexual orientation. To discover that, you could do next: look at attractive men or women to see if you are sexually excited by them, observe yourself while behaving heterosexually to see if you are really "enjoying" it, check the reactions of others toward you to determine whether or not you are acting appropriately.
hi there. I doubt that you are turning gay. If you have been leading a normal heterosexual like up until joining the army it might be just a case that there are just too many men out there and you are finding that is your only outlet for sexual tension.
Either way, goodluck in figuring this out.
Either way, goodluck in figuring this out.
I am a 19 year-old african american growing up in a mostly-dominated heterosexual world. But since my early teens, I've had a strange attraction to men. They don't look good to me or anything like that, but for some reason, I've had homosexual thoughts of being penetrated by one. Sort of like a man being my friend, for instance, and we knew each other for quite some time, and he was gay. Is that healthy for me?
well if u would hate to be homosexual i guess read this, but if ur just wondering if ur gay or not dont bother..
https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/was-a-straight-man-but-now-gay-thoughts-seem-nice-anybody#527346
https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/was-a-straight-man-but-now-gay-thoughts-seem-nice-anybody#527346