I am 41years old and I have never had a wet dream at all. I have always wondered what it is like. I have done some research and read that the orgasm is often extremely intense!
It may sound strange, but I would really love to experience a really good, graphic, sexual wet dream.
What could I be doing wrong?
I have tried everything I can think of to make it happen for me, but no luck! I am getting disappointed!
I've tried Lucid Dreaming, but I can't get that to work. I think about girls often, then I think of a bunch of cute women and fantasize about sex, then I look at several attractive women's pictures every night before I go to bed. This hasn't caused it to happen either!
I went to a topless bar last weekend, because it was my birthday. While I was there, I got about 10 couch dances. Since it was my birthday, I thought it was appropriate to have all the girls I danced with put me over her knee and give me a really good, hard spanking. Some of the girls were extremely good at spanking to! Then I made out with a beautiful, blonde dancer. Then I went home and went to bed. I was really turned on that night when I went to sleep. But, again, I woke up in the morning hoping to find a mess of seaman, but, no luck! There was no discharge of seaman on my bed or in my pants!
Can someone please help me out, men and women, what could I be doing wrong here? How can I increase the likelihood of having a good, intense, wet dream?
There is even a specific girl whom I think about a lot! She is so hot, I love her! I want to have a sexual dream about her very badly! I think about her and look at her picture every night before bed time and get a good look at her blonde hair and blue eyes. I have been fantasizing about her every night for over a month now and I never see her in any of my dreams! How disappointing and frustrating! Because, I am trying very hard to have a good wet dream about her and it's not happening for me!
One thing I've thought about trying is putting some women's perfume next to my bed so I can smell it while I sleep, maybe that will cause me to dream about beautiful girls.
I also live in Cocoa, FL so there's no shortage of beautiful women for me to look at, but even they haven't been able to help induce any wet dreams yet.
Are there any herbal supplements that have a side affect of causing wet dreams that I could take? As you can tell, I am getting pretty desperate! I just want to have at least one really good wet dream, just to find out what it feels like, because I've never had one before!
For the record: I currently don't have a girlfriend, I'm not a virgin, I've never had a problem with impotence, I do masturbate a lot, on a regular basis, it's so addictive that it's hard for me to stop! :( I love only women and not men, I've never had a single wet dream in my life and I've been trying very hard to have one for quite a while now, I want a wet dream pretty badly and I'm really looking forward to having my first one ever! I've heard that it feels much better than masturbating! I hope so!
Any serious advice would be appreciated from men and women! Help me out please!!! I am dying to experience this! One other thing, have you ever made yourself have a wet dream? How did you do I it? What was the dream about? What did it feel like? Did you enjoy it? Would you want to experience a wet dream again? Why or why not?
Most men can't hold off ejaculating long enough to overfill their man sized balls' capacity to hold lots of sperm. The sensations of a wet dream probably shouldn't be any more intense, longer, or different than a good sexual ejaculation after edging for as long as you can hold off cuming in one masturbation or one sex session. Plus, all of those lost ejaculations you'd pass up in trying to hold off for one chance at a wet dream are more total pleasure and time spent ejaculating and shooting off than any one wet dream could possibly last long enough to give you. Do the manly thing and just shoot your sperm as much as you possibly can and as often as you can to enjoy your penis and balls the most. Wet dreams happen to younger, smaller balled guys who can't hold as big of a man sized load in their less mature nuts. You're a bull now and not a calf.