How can I orgasm without videos?

Okay, so I'm 14 years old and I've been masturbating for a long time. But only now, this year, have I started to orgasm. I was wondering if it feels the same for every one? Like it just feels like I have to pee and then everything gets sensitive and I keep rubbing my clit until it hurts and I can't anymore. The first time I actually brought myself through the entire orgasm, I didn't know what to do, it was like twelve thirty at night and I ended up peeing on a towel in my room. Is that normal? It felt really weird and it didn't come from my urethra, so I'm not sure if that was a squirt or not. Could someone help explain that? And also I would like to know how to get turned on besides porn. I can orgasm anytime as long as I have my phone so that I can watch porn, but I always just rub my clit at the rate the girl or guy is being screwed. I like rubbing really fast from side to side because it makes my orgasm cone faster, and I usually masturbate at least twice a day. I feel like I'm addicted to my orgasm, and watching bondage and grinding videos really turns me on, but how can I orgasm without videos? Any tips on how to get myself turned on?