I'm bisexual, but haven't told many people. Is there a way to tell if a girl is interested sexually without just flat out asking her? I'm not the most outgoing person, so some tips would be nice. :-)
The best way is to ask her or her family.
But just as you can learn if a guy is interested in you, there are subtle ways to find out if a girl is.
Does she wear short hair?
Is she into sports?
Does she hang around in sports bars?
Who does she sit with?
Who are her posters showing?
Does she talk about guys or girls?
and when you talk with her, does she light up, or look uneasy?
These are non-verbal cues that can help you learn what she's into. But any one question is not enough to jump to any conclusion. (Especially "short hair"... that's typing. %-) )
But just as you can learn if a guy is interested in you, there are subtle ways to find out if a girl is.
Does she wear short hair?
Is she into sports?
Does she hang around in sports bars?
Who does she sit with?
Who are her posters showing?
Does she talk about guys or girls?
and when you talk with her, does she light up, or look uneasy?
These are non-verbal cues that can help you learn what she's into. But any one question is not enough to jump to any conclusion. (Especially "short hair"... that's typing. %-) )
Well I personally dont agree with some of the things kirk c had said so im sorry. The best way to find out is to ask dont judge people by how they look or if they are into sports. There is alot of false profiling...for example, alot of people think that girls who play softball are gay or bi. Not true. I am a college athlete and I happen to play softball. Yes there are bi and gay girls that play but they play every sport. Judging someone to soon could get you a bad rep. If a girl isnt comfortable by tellin you at first then just wait till she is.
Thank you , Athlete8, for sharing.
I want to repeat that it is not fair to stereotype based upon short hair or just one appearance...
I agree with what Athlete8 said.
However the question was not "How do I spot a lesbian?" but "How do you tell if a girl is interested in you?"
I was giving some visual cues that might suggest if she MIGHT be into you, but I thought I stressed that that was not enough.
I want to repeat that it is not fair to stereotype based upon short hair or just one appearance...
I agree with what Athlete8 said.
However the question was not "How do I spot a lesbian?" but "How do you tell if a girl is interested in you?"
I was giving some visual cues that might suggest if she MIGHT be into you, but I thought I stressed that that was not enough.
that is so so typical , I Have ben married for years yet the thought of fun with a lady would be lovely
i dont understand How does she sit with?? just cotact a lovey lafy into touching and friendship
i dont understand How does she sit with?? just cotact a lovey lafy into touching and friendship
i will meet you and discuss your question as i have wanted to knw the same answer
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