Okay. I'm still a virgin and everything. But i wanted to ask does who've lost their virginity on how it feels. Like how much pain it really is. I really wanna know how it feels so i know what im gonna get myself into when i do loose it.
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Well I'm not a girl, but I know that for you..and every other woman, it depends on who you are.
If you've masturbated in the past, then it's probably not gonna hurt that much, but if you're a tight prude girl who's never even thought about touching herself...then maybe it's gonna hurt.
A lot of women bleed during their first time or within their first few times. It's perfectly natural to feel a little bit of pain. I wouldn't really be scared though because sex is a perfectly natural thing, and you're going to have to have it sometime.
Make the guy use a lot of lube. That always helps.
Good luck
If you've masturbated in the past, then it's probably not gonna hurt that much, but if you're a tight prude girl who's never even thought about touching herself...then maybe it's gonna hurt.
A lot of women bleed during their first time or within their first few times. It's perfectly natural to feel a little bit of pain. I wouldn't really be scared though because sex is a perfectly natural thing, and you're going to have to have it sometime.
Make the guy use a lot of lube. That always helps.
Good luck
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much of pain is in the mind. Some women feel no pain at all.
For me, the experience was purely emotional, I felt no pain, and didn't feel any "different" afterwards. it depends on your personal threshold.
many women feel minor discomfort, but as MisterHo put it so well - just be gentle and easy on your first time, use a water-based lubricant. You'll be fine.
and if you feel like you don't want to continue, by all means! stop! its your body!
For me, the experience was purely emotional, I felt no pain, and didn't feel any "different" afterwards. it depends on your personal threshold.
many women feel minor discomfort, but as MisterHo put it so well - just be gentle and easy on your first time, use a water-based lubricant. You'll be fine.
and if you feel like you don't want to continue, by all means! stop! its your body!
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Well, it depends on whether or not you actually have your hymen still intact. I can't say for sure what that would feel like as I masturbated quite a bit before losing my virginty. I've heard it's more painful if it is intact. Either way, my first time wasn't really painful during it but afterwards I felt awkward and a little bit of stinging. However, it wasn't all that painful and it didn't last too long. Maybe about 15 minutes or so.
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I lost my virginity at 17 after my boyfriend had been fingering me for maybe a month (we'd been together for over a year at that point.) I thought that maybe it wouldn't hurt so much but he was really big (I mean huge) and I ended up bleeding a lot. Yeah, the pain was there but it was kind of like...numbing. I don't know how to describe it. That was almost 5 years ago. Honestly, I was pressured into it and I didn't enjoy it; it probably lasted all of ten seconds before I started crying and it was over. Hooray.
Please wait for the Right Guy and don't lose it like I did.
Please wait for the Right Guy and don't lose it like I did.
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Well I lost mine today and I was ready to loose it but it lasted about 10 seconds because it hurt so much. I thought I'd already broken my hymen but I hadn't so there was blood. I'm not sure if it will be better next time.
Everyone is different and I can't say that that is what your first time will be like.
But my advice is make sure your completely relaxed, use plenty of lube and then some, make sure your also really turned on and make him go slowly, inch by inch if you can. Make sure your in controll of his rhythm. And be prepared for blood. It wont be alot, about a teaspoon.
But also make sure it's with someone your happy with and someone you can trust who isn't going to freak out at the sight of blood and run away.
Luckily my boyfriend was so nice about it and said these things happen to everyone, don't worry about it.
Hope this helps as this is everything I wished I'd known before.
Everyone is different and I can't say that that is what your first time will be like.
But my advice is make sure your completely relaxed, use plenty of lube and then some, make sure your also really turned on and make him go slowly, inch by inch if you can. Make sure your in controll of his rhythm. And be prepared for blood. It wont be alot, about a teaspoon.
But also make sure it's with someone your happy with and someone you can trust who isn't going to freak out at the sight of blood and run away.
Luckily my boyfriend was so nice about it and said these things happen to everyone, don't worry about it.
Hope this helps as this is everything I wished I'd known before.
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losing mine hurt really bad.. my bf was really big.. he could barely get it in and it hurt when he was trying to shove it in there. definitely use a lot of lube. ithelps.. but i twas stillpainful.. i screamed when he broke my hymen..that hurt really bad.. and yeah there was blood.. for me it was uncomfortable and painful.. kinda sucks!
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Wow, a lot of these responses are really full on!!! I know that there is normally a MAJOR worry with girls and their first time; I was exactly the same. Having lost my virginity recently I can pass on one thing. I doesn't hurt as bad as you think it will. For a while there is a bit of poking around while you get used to the rhythm. Kissing helps take your mind off it. There will be a little bit of soreness at this point, but no worse than mild cramps. You get used to it and generally forget if you are into the guy you are with. Then comes the big 'push' (that's right ladies, the breaking of the hymen :s). It's on a par with moderate to bad cramps (depending on your pain threshold) and you might lose a little blood (I concur with the tablespoon) at this point. River of blood? No chance. The initial pain subsides and you might feel a little uncomfortable after the event. IT IS OKAY TO STOP IF IT HURTS. Or ask the guy to go slow/be gentle/whatever. This does not mean it will hurt every time you have sex, it is kinda like a any cut or bruise; you need time to heal and then it's business as usual. There might be a bit of mess afterwards, don't freak out, just keep some tissues handy and have a shower if you want to. It might sting when you pee for a bit, but that normally stops after a few hours. Then just take it easy for a couple of days. When you are ready to have another 'go' (and you totally will) call your guy up and get to it, on your terms. In the shower, in your room, wherever you feel comfortable with experimenting. Remember: you are in control of something that can seem to be a HUGE deal. Don't let people freak you out xxx
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Okay... I'm still a virgin, and all so I have no idea if it hurts or not... but guys... honestly, your lucky. I've never heard of a guy who lost their virginity say, "oh my god it hurt so bad!" I hate men! :-P
Ladies; Though I AM a virgin... I've heard it's less painful if your active, and atheletic. It stretches the hymen, and can even break it- so I've heard-, without you noticing it at all. I'm very active... so I pray to God it's true! :-)
Ladies; Though I AM a virgin... I've heard it's less painful if your active, and atheletic. It stretches the hymen, and can even break it- so I've heard-, without you noticing it at all. I'm very active... so I pray to God it's true! :-)
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Well like everyone else said it depeneds... when it first goes in it will, after acouple strokes you will start to like it and when your done you will want it again.... oh and make sure the uy fingers you before so that it wouldnt be as baddd.....GOOD LUCK
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What ever, i had never played with myself. ahaa i lost my virginity last night, sober and it felt really really good. i loved it! although i didnt bleed but when i pee'd after it stang, it also felt for a while like it was still up there, or i had a tampon in that wasn't in propally if you get me, (even when i was walking around it felt like this) my extra (and i mean extra) experienced friend told me thats normal. so i'm not worried.
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I lost my virginity on Thursay night, and it's Sunday now. That's what, 3 day ago? Maybe it's because I have masturbated a lot throughout my life, but I didn't bleed at all, because I think my hymen was torn a long time ago. The one thing I will say, is that it felt like there was a lot of pressure. That's the only way I can describe my experience. When I told my boyfriend that, he was like "because it's so big" and we both just started laughing. It made it easier because we could have fun with it. I had to keep remindng him not to push too far in, because that's when it would start to hurt, but he's been great about it. I will admit there was a bit of poking around, especialy when we did try another position to make it feel better.
And yes a lot of people say that a female doesn't orgasm her first time, but you may just "come" the second time, because I did, and it feels so much better from sex than masturbating yourself.
We had sex again the next morning, and a few more times over the weekend. I am feeling a little crampy, but I'm assuming that goes away the more I do it, and my body gets used to it. My boyfriend and I are both in our 20's and he had only had sex once before, and we're both realizing that it's more of a workout than we ever thought. There are parts of my body, like certain parts of my legs and lower abdomen, that feel like I've been working out.
I think it's only worth losing it when you're in a great relationship with someone you can trust. Good luck!!
And yes a lot of people say that a female doesn't orgasm her first time, but you may just "come" the second time, because I did, and it feels so much better from sex than masturbating yourself.
We had sex again the next morning, and a few more times over the weekend. I am feeling a little crampy, but I'm assuming that goes away the more I do it, and my body gets used to it. My boyfriend and I are both in our 20's and he had only had sex once before, and we're both realizing that it's more of a workout than we ever thought. There are parts of my body, like certain parts of my legs and lower abdomen, that feel like I've been working out.
I think it's only worth losing it when you're in a great relationship with someone you can trust. Good luck!!
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Ok, I read through the responses to this questionand it helps a lot. I'm still a virgin but my boyfriend wants to have sex. I don't have a problem with it but I had my doubts. These help me with a question I actualy posted yesterday ha. Well if you guys say that peparing for a lot of pain is overreacting then I believe you. As for the blood...I'll get over it ;*
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i try'd too lose it today more then once but it was to painful , wait but i muss say it didnt hurt as bad
while we was in the shower ..... %-) %-)
while we was in the shower ..... %-) %-)
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