I lost mine last night, it hurt unimaginably bad but I think it was because I really didn't want to do it and was really uncomfortable. I regret it a lot and wish I could undo it.
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This is true, about the athletic part. I was honestly so scared but after it happened I didn't bleed at all. It was uncomfortable for a few minutes then we got used to it.
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So I'm thinking about losing my virginity to this guy, he's super sweet he's talented and he won't distract me from my priorities he's honestly the type to make sure I'm caught up. He's such a gentleman and smart he's also a talented musician. And he's very beautiful. His humor is so amazing. The only issue is him and my sister produce music together. And they also hang out he's a friend of my family, and honestly I just don't want the guilt to go along with everything. Is this bad ? Should I just wait for someone better? Or should I just take the risks ?
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That's a horrible thing to say. Let me tell you that as a woman who's had sex that being a "prude girl" has nothing to do with you enjoying sex. Also, there is no time line to when you should have sex so no, you don't have to do it " sometime" and if you do it should be your choice. As someone so experienced I'd expect a more educated answer.
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I am won't lie I'm a bit scared to lose it but I know that I want to lose it to someone who deserves it (MY FUTURE HUBBY). I don't want to lose it to someone who will treat me bad afterwards. Don't get me wrong guys I've learned a lot from y'all and Thanx for those advises...
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Losing your virginity isn't that bad...I lost mine at 16 to a friend because I always had it in my head that friendships last longer than relationships anyway. My friend was older than I but we had known each other since I was about 7. We were somewhat sexually attracted to each other but we had no intention of being in a relationship... To this day we're still cool and we hit it every once in a while. It will hurt a bit, the amount of pain that you will experience will vary depending on the size that you will take on. Chances are you are going to bleed but the blood won't be that much, probably equivalent to the amount of blood you will notice on the last day of your period. Dont let anyone force you into it, you will know when you are ready to lose it, your body and mind will let you know. BTW use a condom...always be safe
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So I'm 20 now I had lost my virginity in the 12th grade with a guy I was going out for the past year. He was not a virgin And I was so I felt kinda weird but I was fine with cause he New what to do. So him and I both went out for dinner one day and I started teasing him cause I felt like I was ready and he was a that's if anything went wrong would stand by me. So I got up and and walked to the washroom and gave him a hint to come. So we were in the disabled bathroom for an hour before we came out. He started off by kissing my neck and then he picked, and didn't want to do anything wrong so I asked what he like for me to do, and he had said as long ur in this I'm in this. He slipped his fingers in my panties and he slowly started fingering me at a pace I like. I then ended up opening his pants and giving him a blowjob and 10mins later he asked if I was ready and I nodded saying yea, he took out a condom and I put it on him he took my panties before I can know he was in me thrustin. It was like a feeling I never felt before and then we both came. He picked me up and ended up giving me oral. That was the first time I had sex and I'm still with him for 3 long years
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I losted my virginity tonight by the love of my life and I felt so much pain thru the whole thing and now I'm really uncomfortable and stinging
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I'm 16 years old. Just lost my virginity with my boyfriend and it hurt like hell. It hurt so bad (even though he was going slow and careful) that at some point I pushed him. Everytime he thrusted the pain was there. And when he went deeper the pain increased. But in the end, the pain was lesser than at the beginning. Since then, I've been bleeding (probably because I'm supposed to start my period today) but yeah. We didn't use any lube, just a condom. And yeah, at some point I felt like I wanted to pee. Don't know why.
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Hi, it can be quite normal for you to experience some pain during your first time but that normally gets over come by pleasure after a short time, as to why you found the whole time is probably a few reasons the main one being you wasn't ready when he started to insert his penis, during foreplay or masturbation a female starts to relax her vagina also starts to produce lubricant and you will notice the labia's start to deepen in colour and swell so labia minora is more prominent you will also notice the clitoris deepens in colour an gets more erect sometimes even poking out from under its hood and also get very sensitive to direct stimulation.
As the labia start to swell and your vagina start to relax more the labia will start to open like a flower bud giving an indication that your vagina is now ready for penetration. Intercourse isn't just a case of when you feel ready it also needs your body to be fully ready too, to many young people rush to have there first time sex and for that reason alone is why it's painful, another reason can be just the simple fact you tense up because you don't know what to expect causing your vagina muscles to clamp tight, it is also a good thing to use extra lubricant no matter how wet you are even if using a lubricated condom.
You don't say when you lost your virginity but depending on your hymen a little bleeding can last anything up to 5 days after.
The fact you felt the need to pee could of been because of either pleasure on your bladder or that he was stimulating your gspot as his penis moved in and out.
Hope this helps you understand more about intercourse.
As the labia start to swell and your vagina start to relax more the labia will start to open like a flower bud giving an indication that your vagina is now ready for penetration. Intercourse isn't just a case of when you feel ready it also needs your body to be fully ready too, to many young people rush to have there first time sex and for that reason alone is why it's painful, another reason can be just the simple fact you tense up because you don't know what to expect causing your vagina muscles to clamp tight, it is also a good thing to use extra lubricant no matter how wet you are even if using a lubricated condom.
You don't say when you lost your virginity but depending on your hymen a little bleeding can last anything up to 5 days after.
The fact you felt the need to pee could of been because of either pleasure on your bladder or that he was stimulating your gspot as his penis moved in and out.
Hope this helps you understand more about intercourse.
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So I have been dating my boyfriend for two years now . I love him a lot I met his parents were just so in love but we really have a issue with me giving about my virginity as much as I want too , I'm just afraid he isn't going to like it I really don't know I just want it to be the best I plan on going there this weekend and giving it up but I am still afraid help me
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Hi, my advice to you will be don't plan when you want to lose it just let It happen naturally during foreplay ie kissing, embarrassing, exploring each other's bodies an both of you engaging in oral, just don't rush straight into intercourse an take It slow when you do that way you will both be relaxed and enjoy it more, the more your relaxed the less it will be painful and the more your feel pleasure faster. Your boyfriend Is a lucky guy and no way should he be disappointed because it is a great honor to have that pleasure of being her first.
Hope this helps :)
Hope this helps :)
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