How It Feels To Lose Your Virginity

I was forced into it.

Um ok I’m 13,, and me and my boyfriend just talked about sex. I’m scared. Should I do it or no. I’m not scared its going to hurt, I’m scared because I don’t know if I’m ready. I mean I want to do it but I can’t. And he said he has “protection” and I’m scared it’ll break or something. I also use this vibrating thing in my vagina. And it feels good but is it like sex. PLEASE HELP ME IM SCARED AND IM WONDERING

If your writing this questioning if your ready to have sex then evidently your not!
It OK talking about sex but have you talked about contraception to and what would happen if it failed and you got pregnant?
Your still so young yet to be wanting to have sex at 13, the longer you wait the better and more memorable it will be.

When you pee after u lose your virginity it stings cause he "popped your cherry" and when that happens a lil piece of skin falls out of you vagina which is your cherry

I was 13ish when I first had sex and lost my virginity. The guy I was with was much older and he took care of my every need. Something to be said about having a much older boyfriend. 

Sex is fun. You will be a wee bit apprehensive, scared, nervous, anxious and worried about the unknowns because a lot of garbage and recycled rubbish is thrown around and fed to girls like you. 

Those who say sex is painful and was a horrible experience, probably haven't had sex in the first place but are pretending they know everything to seem cool to their peers.

My bf performed a lot of oral sex on me and used a lot of foreplay for hours before he penetrated me for the first time. He stretched me out and used a lot of lube for penetration and he made sure I was having a massive orgasm while he was penetrating me. That way I was enjoying myself and really turned on instead of feeling any pain. Even the bleeding was trivial. 

To tell you it was a fantastic awesome experience and I think it may have been so because he was a lot older and very experienced. He had his own place and we had a lot of privacy. That was very helpful in order to avoid any nosey prying eyes. 

So you can read my post and get from it what you want. Sex is fun, thoroughly enjoyable and if you have a boyfriend who can perform a lot of oral sex and foreplay and get you really wet and turned on, you will enjoy the experience without any negative thoughts. 

"Your still so young yet to be wanting to have sex at 13, the longer you wait the better and more memorable it will be".

Really?? what kind of silly advice is this. No wonder girls are more and more confused.
Waiting to have sex does not make it any more memorable.
Having the right experienced partner who can give you a mind blowing experience makes it a memorable experience.
My advice would be is to have sex if she wants to have sex, take care and precautions against STDs and pregnancy and make sure you have a lot of foreplay and oral sex till you are having a huge orgasm before he penetrates you.

Nothing else matters. Sex is fun and we need to teach girls that sex is meant to be enjoyed and that it is very much fun.
Please dont treat us teens like idiots. You look foolish when you try and give such crazy advice.

You get treated like idiots because most of you are for the simple reason you think about having sex but not about using contraception!
You then end up writing up on here stupid things like I had unprotected sex with my bf will I get pregnant or I had unprotected sex the day before my period started will I get pregnant and then expect us to answer where as if they just took a little more care and used protection and learnt how the reproductive system worked they would know pregnancy wouldn't happen!

okay for being a health guru you haven't understood some basic things

a) do you realise that many of the things posted here, like what you are referring to is just rubbish and someone asking the question to generate that response from people like you - they want to shock !!

b)If you hear such things then it is your duty as a health guru to educate them. There is not enough education. Everyone is only bothered about telling teens not to have sex early. Like what you have done. Having sex is a given. Why keep harping on abstaining?? Just accept that sex is part of life and will happen and then start doing the right thing by educating about pregnancy and precautions, STD and prevention. That would be the mark of wisdom

c) trying to make teens look like idiots will get you no where if thats the attitude you have towards sex education. Teens are far more intelligent than what you think.

No, you don't necessarily bleed the first time you have sex, though it can occur in some women with thicker hymens. You should be relaxed and well lubricated. When losing your virginity there's never too much lube! And ofc communicate with your partner! Closed mouths do not get fed!

How can you be forced into something unless you were forcibly raped. I dont understand.
is it that you were forced or encouraged and sex facilitated through making you lose your self control.

so True. Lube is the key. Plenty of oral sex and foreplay helps a great deal too. Relaxation and taking your own time are so essential too.

same im in a lot of pain rn and I'm not liking it!

It will get easier, the main reasons any sex is painful even for the experienced person is because they wasn't relaxed enough and not wet enough so it's caused friction.

I lost my virginity last year in may of 2019 when i was 15 and had finially made my First Holy Communion with the 7 year olds that sunday morning! I was dressed like the little girls in my poofy,short sleeeve,knee length communion dress and veil with the lace anklets and white mary jane shoes and had the white tee shirt with a cloth diaper and plastic pants on under my dress just like the little girls wore.After my party that afternoon,my boyfriend Brandon,took me to his house,as his parents were out of town.We started kissing,he put his hand under my communion dress and felt my diaper and plastic pants and got very aroused! He got my dress off of me,then got me to my knees and made me give him oral sex,then after that we went to his room and he got my plastic pants and diaper off of me and took my virginity! Ever since then,i have been feeling very guilty and knowing that i sinned in gods eyes!

That's awful. Sex should be very gratifying and pleasurable if done correctly with a lot of foreplay and care. Did you guys indulge in heavy petting and caressing? Did he perform oral on you? Did he make you orgasm before he penetrated you? Did he use lube to help with penetration the first time? Was it rushed or was it done with attention and care towards you? You see quite of the experience is a rushed one because you guys havent planned and prepared for the event. Guys notoriously wasnt their gratification quickly and at times appear to care very little for the girls insecurities, anxiety and need for pleasure too. My first experience was when I was 13ish, not quite. The guy was a lot lot older but he was magnificent and kind, caring and attentive and so so sweet. We had hours and hours of foreplay, fingering, oral sex and he made me orgasm over and over again and again and finally when he felt he had stretched my hymen enough he sexually penetrated me using a lot of lube on his penis and inside me. I was with him all weekend at his wonderful apartment. My friends covered for me. I was so thrilled. He made me feel so good and I never regretted this experience. We were together for nearly 18 months. He was from Europe and had to go back. He was here on a research assignment.