Oh wow, I was reading the post to see if I can get an answer about my suitation and these remarks from all of you are kind of cruel toward one another. Grant it a woman that cannot conceive envy, judgemental, and slightly jealous of women that breed like cats but on the flipside of that women that breed so easily have to be careful with their bodies because having a baby and having abortions put your body at risk. Overall, yes we are entitled to make our own decisions and choices with disregards to others. I am speaking on behalf of both women because i experienced both situations. I was infertile for 5 years according to 3 different opinions from infertily specialist a few years ago and I did not give up regardless of how unbearable the news was to me. Now, we birth 4 children and husband looking for a 5th one. I on the other hand was just 6 weeks pregnant 3 weeks ago and had an abortion because i had 4 c-sections and the children are 12, 11, 7, and 1, I was afraid to have a 5th c-section so soon because of the death risk so i wanted to give my body a rest.***** TEARING*****that was the harest thing to go through. My husbad object to it, therefore did not go with me and i thought i would be okay about it being that i was more afraid of dying trying to give birth but i am lost....I cry and think about our baby sometimes and say to myself that if only i would have waited a little longer than i know for a fact i would have not gone through with it and will risk death trying to give life than to get rid of a life that we so desperately wanted 13 years ago. >;) the clinic recovery states to wait until after the 2week check up to become intimate so we waited for health reason and now in the 3rd week we are back intimate without protection and at this point i dont care if we become with child again or if we dont but i will never, ever have another abortion regardless. I love my life and my family life and everytime i look at these children of ours i think of the one i am missing. Make matters worst all of my children look just alike....looks like my husband so i already imagine what the 5th one would have looked like also. :-( so i say all of this to say i know how both of the infertile women feel and also the women that gotten an abortion. i dont know where the other two women are but regardless of what your situations are do not give up on having your dream because some human doctor told you that you are not capable. Its all type of options out there but the most inexpensive one that i experienced and others i referred younger or much older conceived when they thought it was never possible. This doctor is all about making babies and not about money like some of the rest of these doctors out here. Dr. Suresh Thani, 566 Nye Ave, Irvington, NJ 07111, 973-399-9155. If you cannot go to him as your infertility specialist...not plain olded OB/GYN....dr. has to be infertily and OB/GYN because they are more knowledgeable. My problem was my tubes were blocked and also my menstrual was very ilregular and that cause me not to ovulate. The other drs. could have known that and still sent me on the wild goose chase of saying i got to loose weight and etc. BS. Dr. Thani prescribe PROVERA to regulate menstrual and CLOMID to make me ovulate and fertile as hell. Now some drs may prescribe fertilit drugs that insurance companies do not like to pay for but CLOMID they will definitely pay for because this is normally to prevent breast cancer so it boosts your estrogen level so high you become fertile. Have a good one and for all of you women i reakky wish good luck on eitherside!