pretty sure there's not a standard for this... I would say thought that if you can't fit your fist in there you should be fine. I've heard of exercises you can do to make it tighter but I really don't think you need to worry about it.
You shouldnt worrie especially if your not having sex..and as some have already said it'll tighten bac up.
Enjoii yourself stop worryng (:
Dodo please tell me how many fingers can u insert in there easily, and what items have you inserted in your sweet sweet cute vagginal hole.
Yupp sammy you are cent percent corrct and above all you aint a w****.you are a nice sweet blessed girl :-)