im glad im not the only one with this problem! i really want surgery and ive looked it up so many times but it never says how old you can be? anybody know? p.s. im only 14
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Well im not in the same situation as yall are but i can tell you this. Guys like a fat p***y lets go ahead and get it out there that is what it is and you should be blessed that you have that. I mean my husband loves it. It gives the guy something to nibble on when you guys are having for play and let me tell you it is a turn on. They love to bite it and pull on it a little bit. So its nothing to be ashamrd about but i did find a website and i emailed the lady (surgeon) and she is supposed ot be writing me back so when she does i will post it on here about what she says!!!!!!!!! ok good luck XD
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Ok, so I'm in the same possition, kind of. I'm 16 and my labia is a little large, this is a problem with me because I get very uncomfortable. I'd like a labia reduction but don't think ill be able to get it done untill I'm 18 which is annoying. I've been intimate and have never let anyone see my labia, but recently I've came out as lesbian and I'm very concious when a girl goes down on me, as u think she"ll laugh or believe I look horrible... I've just got with a new partner and me and her haven't been intimate yet, I want to be able to have this done before that happens. I've even considered doing it myself I'm that desperate, I want it done because I want to be able to feel confident about myself, not just due to sex.
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i'm so glad that there are people just like me.. and understand how distressing it all is. personally, i'm 14 and i can't even remember when i first noticed that mine was 'different' if you will. i've been searching around on the Internet for a long time but i just can't find anything. i know i shouldnt be thinking about it at 14 (nearly 15) but when it comes to sex i dont know what i am going to do.. all my friends go on about how disgusting oversized labias are and that its just not normal and i have to sit there and put up with it without them knowing. its terrible and it gets me upset so much, i havent even told my mum because its too embarassing. i think surgery is the only solution, but i have no idea about what to do. ideas? :/
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Hi,
Im 13 almost 14 and i have started to notice my large labia over the last couple of years. They are quite long and shrivelled and it really gets me down. When i was about 11 and un aware of my large labia, i was changing at a swimming pool and my friends commented on the fact that 'i have a willy', so i know it's not normal. At sleepovers some of my friends prance round in their underwear and i cant help but notice that their area is completely smooth down there in their pants, where as it looks like i have a large bump in mine no matter what pants i wear. I don't have any discomfort down there as in pain, but it just looks so ugly!
I know im rather young, but there is a guy i like that has done stuff with girls, and i would love to be able to do this stuff without being seriously scared that he would laugh at me or spread rumours that i was disgusting down there.
I feel that i really can't talk to my mum about this because it is just too embarrassing:(
Im 13 almost 14 and i have started to notice my large labia over the last couple of years. They are quite long and shrivelled and it really gets me down. When i was about 11 and un aware of my large labia, i was changing at a swimming pool and my friends commented on the fact that 'i have a willy', so i know it's not normal. At sleepovers some of my friends prance round in their underwear and i cant help but notice that their area is completely smooth down there in their pants, where as it looks like i have a large bump in mine no matter what pants i wear. I don't have any discomfort down there as in pain, but it just looks so ugly!
I know im rather young, but there is a guy i like that has done stuff with girls, and i would love to be able to do this stuff without being seriously scared that he would laugh at me or spread rumours that i was disgusting down there.
I feel that i really can't talk to my mum about this because it is just too embarrassing:(
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hey guys,
i'm 14.turning 15 on march the 21st.
and i literally cannot stand my labia.
it's too long.
and i'm getting a physical soon,
i really and truly want this surgery!
i'm way too embarrassed to tell ANYONE.
i live in North Carolina.do you know if i can get surgery if i'm only 15?
i haven't had sex yet,or even shown anyone "mine".
please reply to this,i'm so nervous and sad.
-person in neeeeed:(
i'm 14.turning 15 on march the 21st.
and i literally cannot stand my labia.
it's too long.
and i'm getting a physical soon,
i really and truly want this surgery!
i'm way too embarrassed to tell ANYONE.
i live in North Carolina.do you know if i can get surgery if i'm only 15?
i haven't had sex yet,or even shown anyone "mine".
please reply to this,i'm so nervous and sad.
-person in neeeeed:(
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im in my teens, and i was born with a "saggy" vagina.i never had sex,btw. i cant wear yoga pants because you can see it sagging and when i put on jeans, you can see each lip ulging out. its sick, and i have donee a crapload of research. i feel like in the only one in the world with this problem, because NO ONE that i know of has the same thing.
someone please give me advice....any excersises i can do to not make it look or be saggy.?
someone please give me advice....any excersises i can do to not make it look or be saggy.?
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hey guys; you all shouldn't worry about it. i have it too and my boyfriend and my previous ones have never said a bad word about it. but i know what its like, i dont like mine either, but mostly because its uncomfortable. but most men wont mine, trust me! there just happy there getting some :L. don't worry about it, but if you wna have the surgery, go for it, i am. but dont do it for someone else, do it for u .xx
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im exactly the same, however im 14! and its so embarrassing..
i want a reduction too & i spoke to my mum about it but she said not till im 16 so i have to wait, although i was speaking to my best friend Kyle & he said that people will still love you, and if they dont then there just pathetic.
all my mates are like shagging at the moment so its really embarrassing to be the only one thats like it. none of my girl mates know because im scared what they will think..
although i have done things with a boy i still hate that i have it and its thrown me off sex altogether :-(..
i just want the surgery.
i want a reduction too & i spoke to my mum about it but she said not till im 16 so i have to wait, although i was speaking to my best friend Kyle & he said that people will still love you, and if they dont then there just pathetic.
all my mates are like shagging at the moment so its really embarrassing to be the only one thats like it. none of my girl mates know because im scared what they will think..
although i have done things with a boy i still hate that i have it and its thrown me off sex altogether :-(..
i just want the surgery.
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I'm 16 and I have had the same problem. I've been aware of it for as long as I remember really. It's horrible, it's ugly and it causes so much discomfort. If I pull them loosley, they reach to about 2/3 inches long. This can't be normal? i haven't had sex yet, but I have had people go 'down there' and it does make me feel so uncomfortable. I am so glad that I'm not the only one, but I really want surgery to get rid of them. I'm too scared to go to my mum about it and I don't want to be laughed at by doctors. if it's free on the nhs it would be amazing, but i dont want to have to wait until i'm 18.
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oh my god. finally other people in my position. :')
im 15 years old and had this ever since i can remember, i noticed it was different when i was about five or six but obviously it didnt bother me then but it does now, :/ my mum had it done privately for around £3,000 or so but i dont know how old you have to be, i heard it was sixteen but i have no idea. Her doctors told her you CAN get it done on the NHS as long as its affecting you emotionally, not just something that you want just for the sake of it. but i'd really love to know if any of you have any updates? or news about it all? im really self conscious about it and i dont realy want my boyfriend to ever see it until i get it fixed lol
thanks
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Im 16, and have the same problem but i only have one inlarged labia. I am so glad im not the only one my age that has this problem. The only person i have told is my mother and she reassures me that it is normal but i know that already. I have been to my GP and they said there is nothing they can do on the NHS you would have to go privately. It causes me discomfort, like many you said when wearing clothing and when on your period. I have had this problem for about 2-3 years and is really starting to bother me as I am getting older and I am starting to get sexually active. I am scared that a boy is just going to laugh or freak out and go and tell his mates or something. What age do you have to be ? I have been considering this for about half a year and i think its about time i did something about it. Please reply xxx
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i am in the same position as you, i'm only 13 but its horrible isn't it :( i dont want to have sex ever because of this, im just too embarrassed. i wouldn't mind if it was with someone i completely loved and wanted to spend the rest of my life with, but its just in secondary school, in the older years, when you have flings, if you know what i mean? its horrible :( i feel for you
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heey, i've just turned 15 and i've had large inner labia all my life. i HATE the apperance of it. i hate wearing tight underwear, bikinis or leotards. It is also very uncomfortable putting in tampons in. i am at the point now wear i want to "do more stuff" with boys, but i feel way too embarrassed for anyone to see or touch it, and because of this boys think i am fridgid. i am so glad i have found people that i can talk to that have the same problem as me. i haven't talked to anyone about it yet, because i find it too unfortable to talk about, even to my mum. i am really considering having surgery. does anyone know if there are any risks? .. but if it's around £2,000/£3,000 that is way to expensive for me! does anyone know if you can get it done for free? and like you guys i wanna know what age you can be to get it done?!
please reply, thankyou xxx
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