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well i just got contacted back from a place i contacted for it.. i'm the exact same age as you and they told they couldn't help until i'm eighteen. i haven't told my mom either.. and she doesn't exactly need to know. i just keep asking around, going to go to the doctors soon and hopefully they can help me out here. 

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hey! im 15 years of age and i had the exact problem as you did but i was too ashamed to have sex with my boyfriend. i had it done on the 29th april 2013 and i have to tell you it was the worst pain i had ever felt! the hospital physically couldnt give me any more morphine without overdosing me but yet i was still in AGONY! but it was worth it. i would do it all over again without a second thought. it has made my life completely change and for the better! i use to cry at night about it, i felt so low about how it looked that i thought i wasnt good enough, that i was a freak! it took me 3 weeks for me to go back to school and i only told 2 of my closet mates, i told 1 of them before i had the op so she could tell people that i had gone on holiday for a few weeks so no one would wonder where i was but my cover story was that i was visiting my granddad who was "unwell" so once i had healed i went out with the second close matte and she kept on asking how he was doing and i decided i couldnt lie to her anymore and told her all about it, she was then so sympathetic to me saying that i wouldnt have gone through that on my own and that she was there for me. i got mine done on the NHS because my labia minora use to rub against clothes causing pain and i had it done within 5 weeks of seeing the gynecologist. im happy to talk talk to anyone if the need advice on this and i will never judge anyone over anything so you can always ask me questions!   

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You are allowed to get this surgery if your under 18 with parental consent
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OMG ! Hey girlie, where you come from? I live in UK, Ive got the same problem ive been seeing my family doctor couple of times spoke about it but she said just that's okay... that's okay.. im honestly so depressed and upset and I need to get that nhs surgery I even told my mum and shoved pictures cause mine is 5inches long im not laying and it is rubbing in my clothnmes make me unforctable and red I need to get it done otherwise I feel so bad im crying..over this.. and im so depressed honestly this is going painful its hard to think and spea about it.. how long was yours??
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hi, I'm 14 about to be 15. I have the same problem and I have done stuff with a boy and he didn't care about it at all. I am very self confident but when it comes to this I hate myself cuz I feel like its so unattractive and I always push away boys. I'm happy I'm not alone though it makes me happy to see I'm not the only one feeling like this! I still haven't told my mom either it's so uncomfortable to talk about it to her or my friends. I also want the surgery!
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Hey, i'm 15 and i have a long labia too, me and my boyfriend are at the same stage as you, wanting to do stuff, but i feel very insurcure about my vagina, i find it disgusting, and i've done research and i know it's normal, but i don't personally feel comfortable myself, even though now i know others have the same as me so it makes me think what's the problem but if i let him "do stuff" and if he finds it disgusting and tells his mates, and they tell everyone, what will i do? and i hear all my friends take the piss out of girls with "big flaps" and it makes me feel even more low. I really want a Labia Reduction but i can't even talk to my mum about it:(
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You all need to calm down, I have the same thing! I'm 14 and it really bothers me when I see it! But just forget about it!! A lot of girls have it. It is completely normal trust me. If a boy is turned off by it than he isn't the one for you! There are many girls that have Theres all tucked up neatly that's what all of you want right? Well it's also normal to have it hanging out. Don't let the bullies get to you and make you suicidal. NO ONE is perfect! God gave it to you for a reason. There must be something good about it! And we will all find Out eventually!!
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What did your boyfriend say about it? Did he tell anyone about it? Please tell me. Is it true that guys like it better?
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Wear a panty liner it will make it go away
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I'm 15 ( & I've never had sex) and am struggling with this as well. I feel awkward when a guy asks for nudes and says "send me pics of you down there" and then I make up a dumb excuse like "sorry I'm busy" or something like that. I believe that a lot of girls have a problem with this not because they want sex but because it effects your confidence and how you feel about your self. I hate seeing my "down there" area, I'm feel like if a guy saw it he would thinks it's weird or gross. I haven't talked to my mom about it but I hope too soon, getting it changed would make me so much happier & feel more confident in myself.

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Hi I'm 13 and I have it too
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Hey,
I'm 17 (UK) and I've got the same problem!
I have a large hooded clitorus as well as large labia minora. I can't wear lace underwear because it hurts
My boyfriend hasn't said anything about it so I'm glad about that but it gives me so much discomfort, but i know that I won't be able to pay for the surgery to get it reduced...
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Me to guys! I'm 14 turning 15 and I'm just so uncomfortable wearing swimmsuites and spandex and all that! And idk how to talk to my mom...
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Well I'm a15 year old girl with a large labia:( at 14 I fell in love with this guy very sweet but then obviously now adays guys want sex I came close enough a few times but couldn't bring myself to do it. I feel very uncomfortable in my own body
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Hi im only 14 but have had a problem since the age of ten but I have been told if you are under 18 you meed parents permission if you have permission than all you have to do is find the right place!

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