How break your hymens without howing sexes?
I suggest you get yourself aroused by stimulating your clit, once you are well stimulated, begin inserting your finger into your vagina. (you may want to use some baby oil to help make it easier to insert your finger if you are very tight) Insert and remove you finger, each time putting a little more pressure on your hymen until you feel you can push through it. While doing this keep stimulating your clit so the pleasure will relief any discomfort from your hymen.