I have done sex with my fiancee about 30-40 times in 4 years. We were about to get married but broke up due to some problem. Its been 18 months i have nt done any sex. Now i am getting married. Its an arrange marriage and i cant tell my past due to the strong cultural values here. Even if i wont bleed its ok. I dont have any problem. But will my husband feel the same tightness. Plzz suggest me shall i go for the hymenoplasty or not? Its just 10 days left for the marriage and doctors are suggesting me that i should have done it 2-3 week before marriage. Now i am confused. Please help me. Will my husband feel me tight.
Thanks
If your husband's a virgin, then I don't really think he would understand all of that. I mean how tight a virgin's vagina should be. If he isn't, both of you are in the same boat.
Anyway, if it comes to that situation somehow, well, you can say that you used to masturbate. Often with a toy. So it got loosened. That should be a good excuse. However, I don't think things will go that far.
Have a happy married life. Best wishes.