I am 17 now and have a 3 year old and thats because i got pregnant from having unprotected sex

:-) Man I only have this to say. If you want to be all grown up and have sex than you should be willing to face the consequences of what can happen if you have sex, and that is having a baby. If you don't want to have kids, than do not go having sex, period. that is the only 100% birth control method.

Ok, I think a lot of people are being a little judgemental and stamping their personal morale code onto answers. So, with that in mind, Having sex before you body is finished with puberty might not be the greatest idea due to chemical/hormonal changes that are still going on. Also it's where that huge sudden drive is coming from that you probably didn't have 6 years ago. However dear young ones, (Please note I'm only 23 so... I'm not really that old my self.) I've been in a relationship for almost 4 years now, and it also happens to be my first relationship. Anyway I was going to say you guys are doing great asking questions, and please don't take the rebuttals too seriously. Instead continue to learn, ask questions and read about the topic. Not just pregnancy but I'd suggest topics on how sexuality works biologically. It's silly especially on the internet to try and say anything like "No what you are doing is wrong." After all I'm sure you've heard it from actual people with actual voices, and that didn't really stop you. So instead go the other route, and try and research these effects, so that after sex you don't find your self for the next 2 to 3 weeks going "Oh my gosh, am I pregnant?" Abstaining from sex is surely the easiest way to avoid all the risks. But if you've chosen not to Abstain, Information is the best way to avoid the risks. Anyway, the best way to be safe with such things is to gain knowledge. Not act like there's some sort of mythology or mysticism to getting pregnant. As for all of you adults that are coming off like these kids are degenerates, or problem makers because of the fact their having sex, "Shame on you." You obviously don't remember what it's like to have hormones come in, and literally change the way you feel, and think. Also times are in fact changing. Sex is happening more and more often at earlier ages, the Abstinence programs do not appear to be working. Don't you think perhaps actual education on sexuality would be more productive then looking at a teenager and saying "Don't do that!" and then nodding to your self, Job well done? Yeah I'm just saying these youngsters as it were, arn't entirely to blame. The fact that most people's sex talks, cover mostly abstinence and that's about it is sad.

Anyway, that's why I think there are so many sad stories of despondent teens who are pregnant, without anywhere to really turn, because they somehow become ostracized due to a mistake that apparently can happen super easy. And please don't forgot that young guys also can reap serious repercussions from such actions. Sure they don't end up pregnant, but that doesn't mean their life can't/won't turn into a living hell after a unintended pregnancy. I guess that's really all I have for now.


Jacob Gates

Oh my goodness. I'm 19 years and still a virgin. (YAY ME) Statistically speaking, is it true that virgins are more in likely to be impregnated? (Both Male and Female are virgins)

yes you can its very possible i know ppl who have if worrid take a test

My boyfriend and I have sex on a daily basis. I know that I'm still a young girl, but I'm not writint on this thing to be lectured about having unprotected sex or having sex at all. I need help. I have a little nudge in the back of my mind that I may be pregnant. Mt stomache has been bothering me, I'm extremely tired, I do feel notious at times, my breasts are somewhat sore, and I'm always starving! I don't want to tell hom that I thonk I might be, then end up not being. The time for my next period hasn't come yet. Will a pregnancy test work before a missed period? I should be getting it in the next week, but I can't wait that long to figure out if I'm pregnant or not.

there is pregnancy tests that work 5 days b4 ur missed period but if i was u instead of wasting money wait for ur period if u miss then take one

So my girlfriend and I played the other day and all we did WA rub my penis on the tip of her vagina and ever since then Haha has complained of a stomach ache. Is there any way she could be pregnant from that?

wow.. its funny. if u guys dont know anything about it.. then u shouldnt be doing it. simple and sweet

me and boyfriend had sex 4 like 5mins or less and he didnt nutt inside me bt cn i get pregnate from his pre-cum : :$

my doctor said u can get pregnant from pre-cum and it only takes 30 seconds for that to happen and u wont know, and doing the withdrawal method does not work...he can still nut a little in you well his trying to nut........possibility's are use a condom cause am still waiting to see if i am pregnant from pre-cum i have to wait couple of weeks to really get a positive answers cause we did not use condoms and this guy was going a little fast so he could of nutted a little in me or his pre-cum so just be careful and at that age dont have sex your babies....enjoy life now and have sex later when you feel your ready to take on what comes with it...a kid when your not using protection

If your going to have sex U NEED TO WEAR A CONDOM, or the pill or something, It is better to be safe than sorry and be a baby with a baby. You guys still have a full life to live, don't blow it for 1-5 mins of "pleasure".

look, the best way to find out if your prego or not is having a blood test....

preg test sometimes give false readings,

your body changes and sometimes you can be late for your period,

answering if your preg or not over the internet is very hard...see your GP

and you can sometimes get preg if he cums over your vagina.

at your age best of having safe sex, don't be a fool wrap his tool

well firstof all i have sex everyday with out w condom and i havent even got pregnant but always use a condom!!!

Hey I'm worried I might be pregnant we had sex last week and was suppose to start my period yesterday I think and I'm freaking out I might be pregnant I dnt know what to do please help

I still haven't had my peroid and starting to really worry now :-(