a guy in my neighbourhood is asking me for sex and am afraid cos people say it's painful and i feel like him too. Am soo afraid cos of the pains-am still a virgin. Please i need advise on any strategy that can make things easier for me.
If a man asks you for sex, his is not respecting you.
Do not agree to have sex with ANYONE unless you are FULLY comfortable with it. You will know when the moment is right.
I know men put pressure on women for sex, but if he really cares for you he will not make you uncomfortable.