Okay, so I'm 15 now turning 16 next month. I am having alot of problems with intercourse...
I can play around with my girlfriend all I want and have a full erection but as soon as I am about to put on my condom, my erection disintergrates. I haven't masturbated in god knows how long and I've only watched porn twice. So I have no idea what can cause this. I am still a virgin so this has always happened. Im not sure if it's my size though, I am 4inches non-erect and when I am erect probly around 7inches. I am to afraid to consult a doctor or discuss it with family. Please, any help at all is extreamly appreciated.
I can play around with my girlfriend all I want and have a full erection but as soon as I am about to put on my condom, my erection disintergrates. I haven't masturbated in god knows how long and I've only watched porn twice. So I have no idea what can cause this. I am still a virgin so this has always happened. Im not sure if it's my size though, I am 4inches non-erect and when I am erect probly around 7inches. I am to afraid to consult a doctor or discuss it with family. Please, any help at all is extreamly appreciated.
Hi Fordman,
Anxiety can crush an erection. Are your nervous about having sex? Is it a concern about pregnancy?
There is nothing wrong with your size. The average ADULT male is 5 - 5 1/2" when erect, don't believe what you see in porn.
Hope it helps.
Hey,
Im not sure if I'm anxois because I feel confident that she won't get pregnant, but it's always on my mind...
Is there any way to get rid of anxiety?
Thanks for your help dan.
I think the only way to really get rid of anxiety is time.
Lots of guys have trouble "performing" the first time. It can be scary. Not only the pregnancy thing but you also want to make sure that you're "good" and not ejaculate quickly. Hopefully you've talked to her about it.
Are you someplace where you are free from interruptions? Privacy can help.
Have you tried other forms of sex? Have you ever let her masturbate you? It might help once you get past that initial ejaculation.
Finally, don't worry about the act so much, seriously. If you can't keep it up do something different. Focus on exploring each others bodies, and just enjoy holding each other. Feel each other. Then try it again when you think you're ready.
Hang in there.
Thanks alot dan. I will use your suggestions and just wait till we are ready. We have both spoken about it and she says she's ready... I think I might not though. Time will tell.
Thanks.