I am thirteen, puberty problems

Well, if you always lose I would think you'd quit playing that game. Unless you like the taste of his cum.

You will get there, not everyone grows at the same rate. You probably notice the larger ones more. I bet there are some smaller guys too. Also there are show-ers and growers. Some guys who seem to have larger ones are that size all the time and don't get much larger with an erection. Others (the growers) are quite small when flaccid and grow a lot with an erection. If you pay attention to how big you get erect you may find you are about the same size as they are. My personal observation was that guys who were circumcised appeared to be larger than the guys who weren't. I think the foreskin tends to squeeze the blood out of it making it smaller when it's soft. Also having a bare head may make it semi-erect most of the time.

I'm glad to hear cumming contests are alive and well with you young guys now. For a while I thought it was something only me and a few other guys did 60 years ago. I was thinking that with the internet, masturbation had become a thing guys did alone in front of the computer. We had lots of fun having circle jerks and contests for distance and to see who could come the quickest. We also counted strokes to see who came with the least strokes and who could last for the longest number of strokes. So you couldn't cheat on the strokes you had to let someone else do it to you and count the strokes.

So enjoy what you have and don't worry about the other guys. There's a girl who will like what you have. Girls with tiny boobs or large labia feel like they have something less than normal too but they always find a guy who likes exactly what they have.

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