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I am 19 years old and I have tried masturbation for years now.

 I have however been able to have orgasms with my fiance via "G spot". He works late now and I get lonely. 

I would like to be able to masturbate and reach climax, but for some reason, I can't spark anything for myself. I never have been. It doesn't even feel right from any toys or my fingers. I don't get any stimulation via clitoris. I do get really turned on easily but then nothing

I have tried to watch porn. I have tried to fantasize. I have tried using the shower head. I tried rubbing other parts of my body (breasts, neck, etc.) 

I have even tried a bubble bath, exercising more, eating certain foods, etc. 

I don't understand why he is the only partner who I can reach climax with. EVEN MYSELF! I feel like something is wrong with me! 
my fiance doesn't want me to worry about it because he loves the idea of being the only one who has been able to please me. I am glad he is gifted and we are perfect for each other physically and meet each others needs. 

Regardless I feel it will be necessary to be able to please myself. I feel it is good for a woman to be able to have that intimacy with herself. Any advice? :|
im a guy but to me, it seems like a vibrator would be easiest if i were a girl. i have no idea but maybe trying to be really aggressive would help?
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If you don't feel any pleasure from you clit then try getting it pierced. I didn't get anything from my nipples being touched but after I got them pierced it was amazing. Maybe the Clit works the same way?

Also try looking for you clit. Just rubbing away at your vag isn't going to do anything. I took me a long time to find mine but once you find it its amazing!

You're "gspot" thats inside of you is just your clit so you do have one
Don't waste your money on a vibrator.

I'm an 18 year old lesbian.
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