Him and I would be messing around and then I try to take it to a next step and he is soft. He said I'm very attractive and it's not my fault but I don't know it just doesn't seem like it
Hi Alive,
If he's young and inexperienced it can just be anxiety. If he's nervous he won't get or will lose an erection real fast.
Be patient with him. Don't blame yourself.
Hope it helps.