Im in my late teens , and Im with a very attractive girl and it was our first time .... I took her to the room and took off her clothes and i was barley getting hard . We kissed , i fingered her , She sucked my dicc and I couldnt cum either i barley had any feeling .
It felt better just masturbating .. And I get fully hard very easy and bust a nut within 3 mins masturbatin
so
It was embarrassing , did this just happen because im very insecure & nervous because it was my first time havin sex . ?
Please help thanks
So did this happen to you too on your first time or does it happen to alot of people ??? , I think we gonna try this again next week and hopefully I get hard and can feel my penis in her this time . Because I think she cummed , but I didnt feel sh*t on my end while it was in ..
thanks!
somebody help?? my question still is not fully answered !!
thanks
The problem is that you're anxious and over-analysing it way too much which is making you even more anxious. If this is a longish-term girlfriend then the nerves will settle with time as you'll both feel much more comfortable with each other. If this was literally the first time you did anything then it's highly likely that it's because you're rushing things too much and viewing sexual activity as more of a performance than a shared act, but without many more details it's difficult to judge.