I dont know how to reach my clitoris

Okay, first how old are you? Im just asking because you probably need to know more about masturbating. But your clit is on the top of the vagina. If your spread your legs and look in a mirror just feel around and explore. Ill give you a website with the picture of a vagina and the names of the parts. But your clit is a little round ball at the tip of the vagina. It is protected by a flap of skin because it is a real sensitive nerve. When yout ouch it is feels like you have an itch and it makes your legs tingle. And some other things: i usually use the end of my razor or the end of my toothbrush. I do understand that you dont like putting fingers up there but i would recomend it because it gives your a chance to loosen up before you put anything up there. Your could also try a sharpie. Just put them up your vagina hole and start to go in and out slowly. Then rrub your clit. THen go in and out faster while rubbing your clit harder. Im sure you will feel like really good hope this helps :)