I don't know who my babies father is

Whenever you have sex there is the possibility of pregnancy. Guys don't always know when they cum (or partially cum), pre-cum can contain sperm, and some guys lie!

Tell me a bit more of what happened. If you feel you need to private message me, fell free to do so, but in public you might help others. Tell me also about what especially scare you, and what you think you should do. But first of all as a start:

1. What date did your last period start?
2. How long is your cycle (typically 28 days)? Is it regular?
3. At what point did the guys ejaculate?
4. How did you find out you were pregnant?
5. Why did you not use condoms?
6. How old are you?
7. Where in US do you live (state/county)?

I'll try and help

I just found out yesterday I was sleeping too much and my boobs were very sensitive I took 2 different kind of test and they both came out positive. My period usually lasts 7 days. And I'm not sure when my period was supposed to come because I was in birth control I had the insertion in my hand. They didn't ejucalate when they came. One of them just pulled out really quick. The other one just came on top of my clit. The worst part is that I don't know who's it is. I think the best thing would be An abortion I'm only 17 I'll be 18 in 10 days. I don't see myself with a kid. I don't know what to do. /;

Think about all the options. If you are pregnant, there is the option of adoption. I've talked to several on this site who have deeply regretted having an abortion, although they felt it was the thing to do at the time. On girl said something like "I should have been the one to protect my baby, and I killed it. I just want it back." You need to assess all the implications, including the impact on your body and psyche. I don't think abortion is the best thing. Do you have parents to help, or other adults?

I was trying to help with regard to who might be the father, but you haven't answered most of my questions. But please explain a bit more before you do anything. Also give some background information about yourself.

1. What were the two kinds of test you took, and how did you take each test?
2. What was the 'insertion'? Was it Implanon?
3. When was it inserted, and by whom?
4. What do you mean by "They didn't ejucalate when they came". What do you mean by "they came"? Usually that term means ejaculation
5. The one who pulled out really quick, did he ejaculate at any time?
6. What happened to the guy's cum that landed on your clit? What did you do with it?
7. Why did you not use condoms? Implants do not protect against STIs.
8. How would it help if you knew who the father was?
9. What date did your last 2 periods start?

I am surprised that with a properly inserted birth control you would get pregnant, so that needs to be properly established first.

I asked where you live to see if I could suggest where you might get appropriate help.

Really you need to see a health care provider who can give a proper test. Don't do anything without proper medical advice.

I wait to hear from you (privately if necessary)

I took two different test from the drug store. And I actually went today and took one at the clinic and tested positive. 2) the insertion I had was inplanon I actually took it out May 1st and didn't get my period until like May 6 and lasted up to May 12 3) I've had the insertion for a couple Of months at a clinic. 4) I mean like as soon as they pulled out they had already came. The one who came on my clit I think did ejuacalate a little. 5) when the guy came on my clit. I cleaned it off with a shirt. I didn't use condoms because I guess like everyone says we were in the moment. 6) it would help me with my pregnancy because one guy wants to be there for me. But I don't wanna give him false hope it's his too. I told him I'm sure it's his. But I said I saw someone 3 weeks ago because I didn't want to sound like a crazy women. I am terrified. My family won't really support me. But I don't see my self with a child right now. Not now. And it's hard because I had sex with one on May 24 and another one on May 25. So it's hard to even tell who the father going to be.

So which guy is going to be supportive?

Why did you remove the Implanon? Have you had sex at any other time since 1st May?

One of them is. But we both think that abortion is best as we'll. and yes I did May 24 and May 25. Each day they were different guys.

So you have considered the health risks and the emotional and mental impact, and still think abortion is the best?

If you are not prepared to give information, you can't expect good advice.

Saying "One of them is" and "I did May 24 and May 25. Each day they were different guys" is restating what you have already said, and you seem to have made your own mind up.

Probably the 24th guy is more likely the father than the 25th, or maybe someone earlier, but I will just leave you to it as you no longer want any help.

I don't know who my baby's father is. I was told that I'm 7 weeks pregnant. What to do?