I know you won't like this answer but you did give your gf oral and she has asked you to reciprocate the good feeling that you gave her, she wants to do the same to you. You pleasured her and she wants to do the same to you, you won't know if you like it UNTIL you try it - so why not let your gf whom you like/love and trust give you one versus some random girl you don't know? Try it you might like it.
Hi, it is normal to feel apprehensive. explain this to her and maybe let her lick and kiss you on your inner thighs, working her way to your balls and penis without her actually taking your penis into her mouth. That way she can pleasure you and you can feel more comfortable about it. Over time you might then feel more comfortable about a BJ. But of course if you never want a BJ then that is OK too. But in all likelihood you will be so turned on you will want a BJ.
All the best
A female only takes in as much as she is comfortable with, she may gag at first but we all have to learn some where. Is it that you are revolted with the idea? I don't get what you are so nervous about, most guys would be jumping all over this to get to your gf so that she could give them head.
It's common and normal. Every relationship you have with a female will eventually all lead to that avenue one day, you may need to get over that hurdle, not now but one day. I don't do anal sex - that's for you know what and that's my thing - I also have bowel issues, so no thanks. But, no to an awesome feeling bj, buddy you ARE missing out. Like I said in my first post to you, you have a caring, loving, and trusting gf now - just think about it. Let her know you are nervous and she will be kind to you - I promise. Take it from another female. Good luck
I remember some guys in high school who would not let a girl take it in her head. I knew a girl who got slapped for trying to do it to one guy. I could never figure out why they felt like that but I didn't really care because that was just one more thing in my favor. But that was back in the dark ages and I hope Darwin has taken care of that by now.
There's certainly nothing wrong with that, it's a very loving thing for her to do just like you kissing and licking her p***y. You do that to make your lover feel good. Actually I do it because it makes ME feel good. I love having my face right in there and sticking my tongue as far in her vagina as I can get it.
The only thing that would worry me would be if she was a lizard with sharp teeth. Then it would take a lot of trust.
Psst, guess you'll just have to figure out if I'm soft warm and cuddly or cold, and reptilian. Hmmm