My boyfrnd has a fetish for anal sex n i really want to please him but whenever we try it i am too scared of d making it messy.last week we thought of doing it n we got a gud lubricant but wen he started wid his fingers i felt uncomfortable n i was very unconfident about releazing smthng out of y body.i had to stop him der.i want to do it again but confidently so that both can njoi it.how can i make sure my anus n intestines r clean enough to have a clean n joyful experience?
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obviously, you haven't heard of enema yet.
buy an enema kit from the internet. oh, and anal sphincter relaxer spray and penile lubricant too (these two play later).
1/2 hr before you plan to have anal sex, do an enema as per instructions in the kit.
when you're done, wait for a few minutes. don't intake anything after you've had enema. (ideally, you should have eaten 2 hrs before it).
now, drop down on your knees on your bed with your buttocks fully spread backward. get your bf to hold the anal sphincter relaxer, tell him to spread your butt cheeks wide to expose your anus. then tell him he should spray two to three times the relaxer over on your exposed anus. don't mind the liquid getting inside your rectum. it's meant to be. so it's harmless.
next, when your bf's penis is fully erect, tell him to apply the penile lubricant over on his penis. then tell him to insert slowly his erect penis into your anus. slowly means POSITIVELY SLOWLY - without any force, jerks, sudden and/or excitement body movements.
this will make sure your anus gradually dilates and makes room for the large penis to get inside. then after a few tens of pushes, when you're more comfortable taking his penis into you, tell him to slowly increase the pace of his jerks until you're fully at ease with him penetrating you.
all this time, you must keep spread your buttocks. an easy way would be to give your buttocks a whole back push while lowering your back waist. this way, your buttocks would look like an inverted heart to him.
but don't protrude your buttocks so hard that it causes you discomfort. you must pose naturally.
enjoy anal sex and do tell me how it went.
ciao!
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