Dude, I'm 17.
Sometimes i can go for about an hour and a half before i blow.
Sometimes i blow within about 20 minutes.
There are a few things i've learned to stop this.
1. When you feel like your going to Blow, just stop for a minute, kiss her and then go again, it's almost like a re-set button (when u stop)
2. I know this one sounds a bit painful and harsh, But when you feel your about to go, Stop, Cup your nuts, and apply a gentle pressure, Just so you can feel it on them
This automatically makes your brain think pain, and re-sets the stamina.
3. if you blow within minutes.
then just replace the condom, and go again, it's all hype when peoplw say there is opnly one bullet in the chamber, and it's also a letdown to the woman when you go within minutes, but if you carry on, you will go floppy for a minute or two (like anytime you blow) and then you will get your hard back.
4. If you know that you are going to get "intimate" whether it is sex or just foreplay, then masturbate the night before/the morning before.
for example; Knowing your getting some on a monday, bash one out sunday night, or monday morning.
This pro-longs your stamina by about 20 minutes.
These have all worked for me.
i came across them at different times, like reading magazines, or just what i had heard off people.
but if your not sure which one will or will not work for you, then masturbate, and when you feel the "money shot" coming on, try these methods, and whichever works best for you, use it when you get intimate with your Mrs.
I hope this helps.
-Dan
Sometimes i can go for about an hour and a half before i blow.
Sometimes i blow within about 20 minutes.
There are a few things i've learned to stop this.
1. When you feel like your going to Blow, just stop for a minute, kiss her and then go again, it's almost like a re-set button (when u stop)
2. I know this one sounds a bit painful and harsh, But when you feel your about to go, Stop, Cup your nuts, and apply a gentle pressure, Just so you can feel it on them
This automatically makes your brain think pain, and re-sets the stamina.
3. if you blow within minutes.
then just replace the condom, and go again, it's all hype when peoplw say there is opnly one bullet in the chamber, and it's also a letdown to the woman when you go within minutes, but if you carry on, you will go floppy for a minute or two (like anytime you blow) and then you will get your hard back.
4. If you know that you are going to get "intimate" whether it is sex or just foreplay, then masturbate the night before/the morning before.
for example; Knowing your getting some on a monday, bash one out sunday night, or monday morning.
This pro-longs your stamina by about 20 minutes.
These have all worked for me.
i came across them at different times, like reading magazines, or just what i had heard off people.
but if your not sure which one will or will not work for you, then masturbate, and when you feel the "money shot" coming on, try these methods, and whichever works best for you, use it when you get intimate with your Mrs.
I hope this helps.
-Dan
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Dude. Hit that twice. Three times if you have too. Once you bust your first nut the second and third ones take longer
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D: im only 15 and the same thing happens. and im only about 5.4ft and i have heaps of pubes around my groin. is it normal for my age?! please tell me D:.
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i think its just because u get turned on by the girl so much that it just comes out quick when ur having sex just try to think of something else thats wat i do and i go for hours trust me i've had the same problem ;-)
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Me too, I googled it and got this so yeah, I get erections from just hugging a girl i like and kissing her, I can't control it, and at some point it's gunna get spotted.
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hey, i thought that sucked when i was 16 too. now im 22 and it really sucks now that its still happening. but i found my own way around it. i just get hard again. your putting too much effort into the first time. who said you could only cum once? my x gf n i would foreplay till she made me ... then the real fun begins. remember... with patients,lube,condoms and a understanding woman you should have no sexual worries. think im done here =)
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Ok everyone, i as 15 and had the exact same problem 2 years later and still with same gf ibelive i can put rest to the subjest. For getting hard too fast, try flexing a muscle in your leg (or any other place ya want) very hard. it wll remove your mindfrom ay thoughts assosiated with being around girls. Now, for ejaculating very fast, uin a condom does help alot, but also, if you feel as if you about to come, get out and move to another position, or take a break, and it will be longer each time you take a break. 3rdly, there sometimes are certain sex positions that might arouse you more than others and make you come faster. Avoid those. Im sure this will help! Lastly, like avoiding getting an erection too soon, during sex try putting your tounge to the roof of you mouth and press somewhat hard. Sounds odd, i know, but shell have no idea, and (like above) will take your mind off that moment that your body wants. Good luck! ;-)
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I have the same probum and I'm 15 and I'm going to prolly have sex this weekend comeing up and I will be very embaresed if were just laying their talking and I get a huge erection it's proly a big turn off and I reply need to fix it by the weekend I'm at my dads! Bt I donor know how to fix it and I'm not sure what my girlfriend will think this has happen to me for 5 years now and my last girlfriend and I never had sex but just sitting their holding her hand made me get an erectionan and Im sure she noticed but I never asked or said anything and my new girlfriend already have kinda talked about it but Its going to happen in like only a week and I don't know what to do(? I wanna know if it's a turn of for girls when it happens
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Ejactulating more often can cause spontaneous erections. Happens to me all the time. Im walking down the street see a cute girl with my girlfriend and she calls me a pig. If you get a boner and feel like you have to masturbate but you cant, snap a rubberband on your wrist. Not meant to hurt you just to focus it on something else which is on your wrist. Hope i helped a little bit! Here is an explanation for those sex addicted 12 year old kids: One boner make more boner
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Heyy Lads,
I have exactly the same problem with my girlfriend when we kiss and hug i get an erection extreamly quickly and i dont fully ejaculate but i do get these small bursts of ejaculation its really embarrasing and me and my girlfriend are gettiong closer and closer everytime were in her house! need help ASAP is there anything i can do to prevent this??
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I have exactly the same problem with my girlfriend when we kiss and hug i get an erection extreamly quickly and i dont fully ejaculate but i do get these small bursts of ejaculation its really embarrasing and me and my girlfriend are gettiong closer and closer everytime were in her house! need help ASAP is there anything i can do to prevent this??
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im actually different it takes usually a long time for me to get hard. i think you guys are lucky i look at my gf naked and touch and suck on her boobs and i still sometimes dont get hard, its depressing and im 18 years old, idk why but i hate how hard/long it takes for me to get my penis hard, i feel like i dont have enough harmones or its hard for me to get aroused. any ideas or anything , any one have any help for this ?
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I got the same problem.! It sucks ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting** tht you cant last very long. It's actually pretty embarising. What can i do to stop this? Besides the stop and go ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting**.
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I have had the same problem, and experienced it for years until i finally sought out a doctor's help. From the sound of it, the problem is one called Peyronie's disease, and can cause problems down the road for you if not fixed early. It explains all the symptoms of getting hard early, and cumming early over things that shouldnt be. My advice is to seek out a doctors help because if not, after enough times your penis could possibly explode
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....wellll at least i'm not alone....i went out with a girl for 3 years and progressively lasted less time until i was quite literally a 'one pump chump', but when i took a break, i did a much better looking chick for about an hour without going. wtf. then i did some thick girl about 4 months ago and it was the same case as my ex. ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting**. haha.
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I have been at uni for 4 years and been in 2 serious relationships before and both girls have been fine with it... however i have slept with 48 girls and still i find i have this problem, most of them i have been drunk tbh so i last, however if sober i just think about it all the time start having sex and aaarrrr aaa arrrgh. so so annoying and so embarrassing, just started seeing someone else and she been fine so far and obviousaly i still please her but she is fit as hell and i wana fix this! has to be something! :-(
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