I started talking to this boy i found over the internet & he didnt tell me he was in a 2 yr relationship i found out the next day . & she broke up with him , & he continued talking to me when i know he still had feelings . 3 days later i finally meet him & he the whole time before i seen him hes been asking if he can be my first . I wanted to stay a virgin untill i find the right one & idunno just everything he was telling me made it seem like he was that one person . So i had sex with him & he didnt talk to me till 2 days later & told me to do me & hes gunna do him which really hurt me . Because staying a virgin was really a huge deal for me untill i found the right one . Im just so lost on what to do & how to get over this . Also , i dont know if my cherry popped . I didnt bleed & we had sex twice . What does that mean ?
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Hi there
Regarding virginity - a girl can loose her hymen due to vigorous exercise such as gymnastics, horse riding or just any strenuous exercise. To know whether you have an intact hymen or not, simply take a mirror and squat down with legs spread. Slowly separate your vagina lips and you will see this membrane - a stretched membrane near the entrance. Hope this helps
As for him ditching you - a person ditching a girl friend for another one was ample hint that he is after one night stands? Besides there are choices in life one makes, some are good and some are bad choices. Again, there are good men and some are just plain manipulators.........
One must get wise with experience. This should be a learning experience for you. Good luck
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