I'm a 19 year old who has become worried in recent weeks. I believe I masturbate at an alarming rate. I read somewhere that on average a man will masturbate 2-3 times a week. Personally I do it around 4-5 times a day on average. I would like to know if there are any long term problems that can arise from this. Or am I just going through a phase. I have heard that the male sexual prime is around 18 years old. Could this be blamed for my high numbers?
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Hi foley,
I'll go along with the 2-3 times a week and they do same that men peak at about 18.
I don't think you'll have any serious long term problems with masturbating 4-5 times a day, but...
The thing with masturbation is that it feels good and you like to do it. But, if you're doing it 4-5 times a day, how fast are you doing it? I mean when you are in a relationship you don't just want to ejaculate. You want to make it last. You're training yourself to ejaculate fast which may possibly lead to PE, premature ejaculation. The problem with PE is that your partner is not satisfied, and often frustrated.
Slow down a little. Take your time and learn to feel what is going on as you build up to orgasm. Go right to the edge and then back off, go back to the edge, back off, and keep doing that as long as you can. Let it build up, enjoy and understand the feelings that you'll have.
There is more than ejaculating to masturbation. Use it to learn how to control your body. You should be able to last for hours before you ejaculate.
Hope it helps.
I'll go along with the 2-3 times a week and they do same that men peak at about 18.
I don't think you'll have any serious long term problems with masturbating 4-5 times a day, but...
The thing with masturbation is that it feels good and you like to do it. But, if you're doing it 4-5 times a day, how fast are you doing it? I mean when you are in a relationship you don't just want to ejaculate. You want to make it last. You're training yourself to ejaculate fast which may possibly lead to PE, premature ejaculation. The problem with PE is that your partner is not satisfied, and often frustrated.
Slow down a little. Take your time and learn to feel what is going on as you build up to orgasm. Go right to the edge and then back off, go back to the edge, back off, and keep doing that as long as you can. Let it build up, enjoy and understand the feelings that you'll have.
There is more than ejaculating to masturbation. Use it to learn how to control your body. You should be able to last for hours before you ejaculate.
Hope it helps.
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well I'm not in a relationship but I do have periods where I will go through sexual partners. even here I find myself masturbating at around this rate. over the past year I have found myself stopping at the edge and backing off but I only do this once, in future i will try backing off more like you suggested. I'd say I take 30-45 minutes to ejaculate in one session.
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Hi,
30-45 minutes is pretty good but I know you can go longer.
Are you really spending 2-3 hours a day masturbating?
30-45 minutes is pretty good but I know you can go longer.
Are you really spending 2-3 hours a day masturbating?
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