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Hi No Name 12 - It sounds like you're feeling pretty uncertain right now - I hope it helps to know that you're definitely not alone in what you're going through - there are more girls than you'd think who are struggling like you are. I'm curious - what was it that made you feel that you're bisexual? Believe it or not, it's not unusual for kids your age to have confusing feelings about their sexuality, and it may be that what you think about yourself now will not be the same as you get older. I understand your not wanting to talk with your parents about this. Do you know of anyone else - like maybe the guidance counselor at school – who could help? I think it would be good for you to talk with someone - ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** phone numbers not allowed*** Please read our Terms of Use
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some of my family know and they dont care they love me.
but my mother and step father talk about gays and bi like its a bad thing. and if your mother or father is like that you problly should tell them. i havent told them. i told my friends and sister and other family members. just find the people who will understand, there nothing to be shamed of
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While I understand that your sexuality may have changed due to how long ago that you created this post, my answer is to find a strong support system and utilize all the resources that you need. The reason why I'm giving this answer is that someone may feel the same way and them reading this thread, they may find the answers that they need.
One's sexuality doesn't necessarily stay fluid as you could be straight today, gay in 2 weeks, and bisexual in 5 years. By no means and I'm saying that everyone's sexuality will fluctuate. Therefore, it's possible that a gay teenager could be bisexual in 5 years or straight in 15 years.
As to one's sexuality being a sin, everyone is a sinner. Some religions or sects of religions only consider acting on your sexuality as a sin. For gosh sake, it's a sin to have sex outside of (heterosexual) marriage and the majority of people break that sin and they often don't get chastised on it. Actually, engaging in gay or bisexual acts, lying, being hurtful, and even murder are sins and engaging in them doesn't mean you won't go to heaven. Repenting and changing your ways can give any sinner the luxury of heaven.
There are many resources out there whether it's online, a phone hotline, a clinic, or even counseling (individual or group) office that can help people with things including coping better with their sexuality, coming out, and even the physical and emotional effects too.
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