could you still have pleasure when your hymen is not broke when having sex????? im 14 and im looking at your comments now without breaking your hymens and having sex....but is that even comfortable 4 u??? oh yeah n im a virgin so you know i havent done anythnng yet but im thnkn bout it because im the only one who hasnt lost my virginity in my group of friendz and i feel left out i dont want 2 have sex 4 da wrong reason but i think ill like it 2 should i ???? i wanted 2 wait longer though till lik 18 but i feel pressured by many people....wat should i do??? ? XD :$
Why do you feel you need to get rid of your hymen? Do you think it's going to be a wonderfully satisfying event? It probably won't be. Are you trying to keep up with a bunch of people who are lying (bragging) about what they've done? Were you there? Did you actually see them get penetrated by some guy? I believe girls lie to other girls about getting it stuck into them just as much as boys lie about who they stuck it into.
If you want to get rid of your hymen just because you're tired of having it, that's up to you. It IS yours and you can do that if you want. A boy isn't going to love you just because you let him break it. In fact it may have just the opposite effect. In his mind you may become just a vagina to jerk off in.
You don't need to have vaginal sex to have wonderful sex. Mutual masturbation is a lot of fun and when you (both of you) perfect it, it will be VERY enjoyable. Having someone else masturbate you is a whole different experience than doing yourself. If it's being done with love and the satisfaction of the other person as a goal, it is delicious.
I really hope you don't get "stuck" just to collect a sex war medal. When you're older, like in your 20s, being experienced may be expected and even desired, but at 14 I don't see how it can add to your resume in a positive way. I think it just makes you a target.
Please think about it.
If you want to get rid of your hymen just because you're tired of having it, that's up to you. It IS yours and you can do that if you want. A boy isn't going to love you just because you let him break it. In fact it may have just the opposite effect. In his mind you may become just a vagina to jerk off in.
You don't need to have vaginal sex to have wonderful sex. Mutual masturbation is a lot of fun and when you (both of you) perfect it, it will be VERY enjoyable. Having someone else masturbate you is a whole different experience than doing yourself. If it's being done with love and the satisfaction of the other person as a goal, it is delicious.
I really hope you don't get "stuck" just to collect a sex war medal. When you're older, like in your 20s, being experienced may be expected and even desired, but at 14 I don't see how it can add to your resume in a positive way. I think it just makes you a target.
Please think about it.
You shouldn't really be thinking about sex at this age. Let your friends do whatever they want. Be sure and be safe.