But if that is the case, he is just being a typical teenage boy. I know it's tough and it feels like your world is crashin around you, but give it a while and it'll seem like nothing. Trust me, I know, I've been through hell in back for this one guy for almost 5 years. And one day, it was just suddenly all okay.
Teen boys, if not in a relationship, usually don't think about one girl for any longer than a few months - a year. That's the way it is. And it doesn't take them nearly as long to move on as it does girls.
Sorry to seem so blunt, but honestly it's the truth. If you need any further help feel free to message me :)
itsok2bdiff wrote:
Okay so there was this guy that i liked that moved away like a few months ago and hes an acoustic singer.. And i know him really well and he texts me everyday and messages me on fb everyday and calls me everyday and we just flirt hardcore and hes like yeah i really miss u i like u a lot ur perfect i would choose u over anyone.. And this has been going on for a good four months.. And as im scrolling down fb his status says "something just happenned (:" and it said he was in a relationship and i just bursted out crying.. And before he was like "pleaaase dont forget me(:" and i didnt! And i talked to him constantly and now he just completely ignores me that hes in a relationship -.- and it hurts me a lot i guess, cuz i wasted my time talking to him :/ he actually put a smile on my face :/ and he claimed that he liked me a lot.. and he promised we would go on a date when he came to visit.. and the problem is.. i am a very jealous person.. and all his fb statuses are about how happy he is w her, and how she makes him smile.. and it just makes me lose my breath :/ especially because she's beautiful, and then i wonder.. maybe i should've been like her. then.. i decided to call him cuz it was bothering me.. so i told him how i felt (i was furious but i played normal) and he kept saying things such as "i don't know what to say :/" and he just met her 2 days before dating her.. -.- and what really pissed me off was he said "i just don't want u to think that i played you" when he obviously did :/ i don't know. i find it soooo difficult to not think about it, and i try to distract myself, but that doesn't last too long :/ its just eating me alive i guess.. and i constantly check his fb like as an instinct :/ i don't know what to do about the situation, it just really hurts :/
I'm assuming you're a teenager, and he is as well? Correct me if I'm wrong.
But if that is the case, he is just being a typical teenage boy. I know it's tough and it feels like your world is crashin around you, but give it a while and it'll seem like nothing. Trust me, I know, I've been through hell in back for this one guy for almost 5 years. And one day, it was just suddenly all okay.
Teen boys, if not in a relationship, usually don't think about one girl for any longer than a few months - a year. That's the way it is. And it doesn't take them nearly as long to move on as it does girls.
Sorry to seem so blunt, but honestly it's the truth. If you need any further help feel free to message me :)
thankyou (: and that does make sense.. i mean im not as upset now and im 16, and it just ticks me off cuz i still think about it everyday. i just feel like this was my fault.. im playing the "what if" game with myself -.-