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a guy proposed me and said want to marry me he's name is sreedhar. our family is traditional and their is no question of having sex before marriege. hardly they ll accept the love marriage. he only used to talk on phne since he proposed never used to meet, the talk on phone is all about romance and sex and never used to allow me to share any thing from my side. but still i never used to say any thing. one day he asked to meet for the first time so the time i meet him he took me to hotel room and had sex forcefully i cried a lot he also bet me for not supporting and when i shouting he closed my mouth and had sex but i did not bleed then he left saying that my vagina is loose im not virgin my boobs are loose and asking me how many times i had sex with how many people. god promise i never also touch i guy acept him since ever, and  im from grils institute form KG to PG, my parents wil dont send any ever. i had very few frnds that too only grils. this all happen a age ago but still he only make a call before every week off and says he loves me and pled me to meet to have sex and he wil marry me soon.. when i say before things he'll accept saying simply he said all those thing to me and he really wants me in his life. but he wil never call me for other reason expect for meeting to have sex. im depressed a lot.. i like studies, my college and family and friends have lot of impression and trust on me.. my college watchman to principal all love me a lot. what i should to now with my life..!! i thought of suicide but stoped thinking that my family will get into tears and aslo doctors wil know after i die that i had sex once and parents wil die hearing this. he still calls me for every couple of months before his week off and ask me to meet and want to have sex only with me because my physic is making him mad. if i say no, he wil start that bad words and again he wil say all the things said for the 1st time. he did not even kiss me but directly he forcefully tried to have sex that time, he took all my fee money since i gave him my atm card my schoolarship money wil credit in my account and he took that when i asked about it he used to say that he has lot of money they are rich people and whats the need to take my fee money. when i showed my passbook he said he will not give. i don't know y he saying that he loves my physic and innosense and nature all that and again y he says that i had sex with many guy's. evry night im getting into tears. i just hate him after hearign the words of him for the first time itself. what i shoud do, how my life wil be......... can i marry other guy, should i tell that i had sex, its a rape like actully, wil any one marry knowing this..  i love my family a lot

Hello dr girl I read ur article ...its vry sad to hear about ur situation...i would advise u to tell ur PARENTS ONLY about what happen because it is a rape and its not ur fault. did u love him or did you have the desire of sex with him? And yes dont think about suicide because it is a big sin.ok.
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If I have understood your post correctly, he raped you, beat you & stole your money. ?
You need the police, not another boyfriend. Get a friend to go with you, but go to the Police !
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