I M 19 YEARS OLD
I M DOIN SOFTWARE ENGG
abt 8 months ago.i suddenly felt pain in my left arm.....then my heart beat increased........my sis took me to hospital...i had ecg.but there was nothing.....................those very terriable and horrible days 4 me.................then a well known cardiologist suggested me some tests.....ecg,echo,holter,cbc.....all were perfact.........then i went to neurologist..he said this is muscles weekness........i took many anxiety killers..but no 1 is affected
every 1 says this is anxiety..but now i always feel pain in my heart.........tinglings in head,,,,,,,,,,,pain in left arm...........difficulty in breathin when i respire .......my heart beat get slows......i m not able to concentrate on my projects and studies........i think i will die in some days............my parents r not alive................i always think abt them........there is no way 4 me to forget their sudden death in front of me......coz of dis heart pain imm not able to do any thing......when ever i feel pain in my heart i fell as blood is travelling from my heart to head..........wat shud i do...plz help me.................i m depressed...i think i shud commit sucide................there is no other way to get rid of this
I M DOIN SOFTWARE ENGG
abt 8 months ago.i suddenly felt pain in my left arm.....then my heart beat increased........my sis took me to hospital...i had ecg.but there was nothing.....................those very terriable and horrible days 4 me.................then a well known cardiologist suggested me some tests.....ecg,echo,holter,cbc.....all were perfact.........then i went to neurologist..he said this is muscles weekness........i took many anxiety killers..but no 1 is affected
every 1 says this is anxiety..but now i always feel pain in my heart.........tinglings in head,,,,,,,,,,,pain in left arm...........difficulty in breathin when i respire .......my heart beat get slows......i m not able to concentrate on my projects and studies........i think i will die in some days............my parents r not alive................i always think abt them........there is no way 4 me to forget their sudden death in front of me......coz of dis heart pain imm not able to do any thing......when ever i feel pain in my heart i fell as blood is travelling from my heart to head..........wat shud i do...plz help me.................i m depressed...i think i shud commit sucide................there is no other way to get rid of this
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You need to contact a counselor or mental health unit. Suicide is not the answer. It does sound like an anxiety disorder, with therapy and maybe medication this can go away. Please get some help
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dont commit suicide. Think what would your parents if they were alive want you to do Im sure not kill yourself. Hang out with some friends to get your mind off the problems. If you don't have any try an activity to meet people like baseball, or a karate class, rock climbing, working out there are so many things. Suicide is never the answer.
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Legend
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Hi Sonia,
Of course I agree with all previous posters ... You just need to clear your mind. You need to hang out with people who are funny and sociable. The life can be complicated, but also it can be sooo funny and worth to live. The depression is disorder of new age. Nowadays, people are just too far from each other! Therefore you need to go out and meet people who love their lives and the way they live, don't matter how hard they live. Take a break for few months. Go and visit other countries, meet new people ... Forget the daily stress, and if needed - quit your job!!!
Try everything just to feel better! A good friend of mine was almost in same situation. He had tried to commit suicide, but thanks God he hasn't succeeded. Then he left his friends, job and everything in US and went to Brazil. Now he lives there for a couple of years and he feels great! He met new people, new culture and his life is very slow, stressless and healthy. This changed his way of living and thinking!
So I think you need a change too. Do the things that make you happy! The anxiety is just the accumulation of negative energy in your mind. The fear of death is normal and natural and nothing can stop it, but you must STOP thinking about it, because it's crazy. Unfortunately, the humans are the only living beings on Earth who know that they must die someday. This is the fact and you cannot stop it. The only solution to get rid of it is to stop thinking about it. The doctors cannot help you, the meds cannot help you, the family cannot help you, the friends cannot help - only you can help yourself!
We are here to discuss everything with you, so get in and talk about everything! We are here to listen and to give you best possible advice!
Take care!
Pseud0
Of course I agree with all previous posters ... You just need to clear your mind. You need to hang out with people who are funny and sociable. The life can be complicated, but also it can be sooo funny and worth to live. The depression is disorder of new age. Nowadays, people are just too far from each other! Therefore you need to go out and meet people who love their lives and the way they live, don't matter how hard they live. Take a break for few months. Go and visit other countries, meet new people ... Forget the daily stress, and if needed - quit your job!!!
Try everything just to feel better! A good friend of mine was almost in same situation. He had tried to commit suicide, but thanks God he hasn't succeeded. Then he left his friends, job and everything in US and went to Brazil. Now he lives there for a couple of years and he feels great! He met new people, new culture and his life is very slow, stressless and healthy. This changed his way of living and thinking!
So I think you need a change too. Do the things that make you happy! The anxiety is just the accumulation of negative energy in your mind. The fear of death is normal and natural and nothing can stop it, but you must STOP thinking about it, because it's crazy. Unfortunately, the humans are the only living beings on Earth who know that they must die someday. This is the fact and you cannot stop it. The only solution to get rid of it is to stop thinking about it. The doctors cannot help you, the meds cannot help you, the family cannot help you, the friends cannot help - only you can help yourself!
We are here to discuss everything with you, so get in and talk about everything! We are here to listen and to give you best possible advice!
Take care!
Pseud0
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you dnt have to be so negative about it. if the doc says aht its nt heart problems then why not take his word for it. muscular weakness can cause this sort of sensation and then it can be accompanied by boutns of numbness-it could be due to the fact that you are overworking yourself, i believe the soft. eng. is nt an easy subject. why do you get worreid tha you are going to die- live freely, take deep breaths and try to work yourself lesser
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