im 13 and i think im pregnant]=

I do not mean to be negative, but I must ask, why are you writing this? Why are you posting this thread? If the pregnancy test says your not pregnant, then your not. Keep checking though.

Also, you should not be having sex at thirteen years old. This has been said in the posts before me. Sex at your age will ruin your life, and not many kids your age realize this. Sex has a specific task; that is to have children. If you are not ready to have a child, then you should not have sex. If your thirteen, then I'll assume your in still in middle school (grades six to eight). Having a child in middle school will ruin your life. Having a child will put you out of school, and by judging how you type and spell; you need school. So don't have sex. Your not ready. You may get into the mind-set that you "love" this boy, but you are not ready for sex.

By 'ready for sex' I mean: Can you support a child? How will it impact your life? Do YOU have the money to take care of a child (to feed it, clothe it, bathe it, care for it, etc.)? I can ensure you that you wont be getting anywhere past high-school if you were to have a kid at your age. Heck, it would be amazing if you even made it to high-school with a child at your age.

P.S: I'm fourteen years old. I know kids your age with the exact same issue.

if you are pregnant...
Ok unlike the others I will be honest... I am not trying to be mean and nasty to you ok.? but what Im saying below will upset you but its the truth show you get the whole picture and reasons why. See links below as well and try and see the film. plus these. Dont think about doing anything yourself you aint a doctor and DONT go to someone who can do a back street abortion... They tend to go wrong, be agony, you die or never have kids again... Get it done properly in a hospital then no probs or pain...
Fall asleep, wake up, all gone. They are agencies specialising in this... avoid the catholic ones mentioned before as biased. Abortion advice and other pregnancy.

Family Planning Association
Education for choice
British Pregnancy Advisory Service


Teen sex ed and pregnancy services.
covers anything
pregnancy and abortion, adotption female health

Sexaul health Line.
Advice for young people 12-16
Advice for young people

Hope they help. Anyway... short bit is you messed up, you are not bad. you should get an abortion as soon as possible as too yourng and forget adoption as most here are not honest and leaving out the nasty side... as they want you to have babies. (therir relgion then gets more power) Most women get pregnant... you just did it way too early. Look Not saying go to mum straight away as dont know what she is like.., if nice mum yes if not be careful. see below. You are NOT NOT NOT a w****, ****, immoral, fornicator, dirty, filthy or anything like that... You screwed up kids your age do that (thats why you aint supposed to have sex... bit late for that now) HUm (just a make you feel better hug no pervey stuff ok) You and boyfriend... probably due to crappy sex ed as usual and parents not keeping an eye on relationship. Sex unlike most things is serious and complex and lot more then you think you need to know with lots of lies floating around... Hence you should have waited and learned more... but to late so lets work out whats best now. Have an abortion ASAP whilst its still a bunch of cells that would not fit on a pin, no feeling, no nothing... It would be painless if in a hospital/clinic and be like a period... Then thats it, go on with your life, possibly with boyfriend... Never ******* have sex unless on a depro injection (like the pill but one injection lasts 3 months so no forgetting it) AND using a condom... How did you get pregnant... what you do? he pull out as that dont work (willies leak come as soon as stiff for lubricant. You are on anesthetic, fall asleep, wake up all sorted... go back and play with mates, get a hug, go back to school, live your life, have fun , be you forfill your dreams, get a career, travel around europe, backpack Aus and thailand, be who you want to be and have kids later. Not being pervry but trying to work it out... If you give birth it will be a nightmare... trust me... you have to look after it all the time and I mean ALL the time. forget benefits... any you get will go on nappies . But thats forgetting the OH MAN IS IT GONNNNER HUUUUURRRRRRRRRTTTTTTTT!!!!!!! Ever seen the film alien? guess what they based the chest burster on? YOU ARE TOO YOUNG, FANNY IS VERY SMALL AND BABIES COME IN STANDARD SIZES... SO ON TOP OF THE STRETCHING which takes like a day, hurts so much your screamming can be hear a mile away sort of. GUESS WHAT MAY RIP AND NEED STITCHING as too small for the baby to get out? Can you imagine that? and how bloody and hurtful it would be...? your fanny?and how it will mess up a future love life, and cause problems later when you may want kids.? happened to a friend and she was grown up in twenties so imagine how bad that would be for you... Birth aint a beautiful experience... go see one. Pro lifers many show you yucky pictures and lie saying you are killing a baby and stuff... you aint, it may look a bit like one but it ain't one. So its you or whats growing inside you. Boy friend may well disappear and if you got married you woudl probably divorce... You are two young... And the stress would mean you have no time together or to cuddles... Just always nappier or later looking after kid, all money on child care, little chance of handling school. Have you seen in the papers what people think of single mums... Im nice... I am saying the horrible stuff so you dont haver to go through it. Your friend wont be your mates no more mostly. Others all treat you like dirt, and the baby would be reated bad even though did nothing wrong as thats what relgious folk are like. No career, no social life, no love life, if boyfriend goes most guys unless 30+ and you grown up wont date someone with a baby, no prom, cant hang out with mates, no parties, no concerts, no mall, no life no uni, no soroity if in US, bno backpacking, travelling, 18-30 holidays, touys ... NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So dont have the kid!!!!!!!!! ignore the pro lifers you dont have an baby inside you for 8-9 months... now its enhanced blood like what ends up on a tampon. Live your life.I don't know what your parents are like ie are they relgious nuts fierce catholic or worse muslim and pro life anti abortionists? If so Dont tell them yet as may attack or push you to have the kid or adopt. Make sure you decide then they support... serious take my advice. If parents are not uptight, moralisitic, overly strict relgious pro lifere or islamic types etc... Ie ex hippies, groupies , mum ok etc... then DEFFINETELY tell mum like er now... Note mum as dad will want to kill boyfriend (till calms down and realises you both screwed up. Adoption is not an easy choice but they make you think that as after the baby is borne its too late... Relgious groups like cathloics and pro lifers Say thay care for you nad the baby... They dont' they are liers ... See the links below. Thay will be all smiles but in fact hate you, care nothing for you, just want you to make a baby and would happily slice you open to get at it is it meant you or the baby. One borne those so nice folk would be spitting at your calling you a w**** and a **** and benefit scrounging, falt stealing s**m and mother of a bastard. Probably abusing the kid in kids homes ... Thats the reality of a lot or adoptions where the baby once you have bonded to it may be ripped from your arms and you will always regret it and pine for it once bonded(ie after birth) whilst the kid will feel abandoned aspecailly if abused, or in care and most in care end up on the streets, doing smack and turning into h****rs or to crime... Sorry sad to say it but thats not what they say...They actually tried to force 9 year olds to give birth.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! again see links. And those they dont abort in the third worls again homeless child prostitutes for peadophiles blocking it out with brain destroying glue sniffing... They used to enslave girls beating them till they died in ireland for getting pregnant and selling the babies... see here so you can see Im not lying
'The Magdelen Sisterss' should be in your video shop but the tv drama 'sinners' was more accurate if you can find it.
over 30,000 were involved up till 1996...how old were you at that time?
How many of your friends, you or your sister could have ended up here.
Origonal documentry available from

So end bit again is hug, you must be going through hell. Abortion will deff be the best enabling you to get back to normal life as the quicker the better. See both sets of info and dont let the pro lifers scare you with morror photos... All operations are bloody and horrible. But make you better. Nor is that a baby inside you for a long time. Adoption is often a nightmare but the prolifers say its easy. it aint and there are babies around for these couples. Who often are selfish and care little for the hurt the mother feels when they buy the baby. having the kid will Dffinelyt ruin your life even if you mum offers to help out... It wont be all nice and cuddly... You are 13 now... So when your mates are having funninn uni you will be stuck looking after a 4 year old... You REALLy dont want to do that. And hopefully your parents will be cool but be careful of them if relgious nuts. its your body not theres, and certainly NOt the pro lifers or anyone wanting the baby inside you as your to them are nothing more then the shell , they want the fruit and wont care how they get it...I want you to be happy and safe and see ALL links

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First of all. Reading these posts makes me sick. All these people saying your too young are being completely gross. You have sex when you are ready. There is no age when you HAVE to start and no age where your NOT aloud. Please talk to an adult or go to a clinic. That will be the best thing to do.

what did you do in the end?
what was your decision?x

If you're not old enough to even TELL your mother that you have a boyfriend then you KNOW you shouldn't be having sex.

Pregnancy tests do not always detect early into the pregnancy, and can sometimes be wrong. Getting a negative doesn't mean you are not pregnant - during my mothers pregnancy with my little brother she didn't get A SINGLE POSITIVE TEST at all. He's now 19.

I can't believe how many kids are stupid these days. Saying you'll kill yourself is stupid, you don't believe in abortion but you'd kill yourself and your baby anyway?! I'd tell you to stop acting like a child, but you still are one.

Go to a doctors, tell your mother and if she decides to press charges against your boyfriend for statutory rape then there's nothing you can do about it - you've put him in that situation just as much as he did. If you are not ready for all this responsibility that comes with having sex then you shouldn't be doing it.

Your mother is your best chance now, I'd come clean and quick. You may have any number of sexually tramsmitted diseases that can really badly ruin you, scars, scabs, having to have operations, never being able to have babies when you're older, even death.

If you are not smart enough to deal with the harsh truth behind sex then I really hope for your sake that you got lucky, that you are not pregnant and that you didn't manage to catch an STD.

I also hope that you'll begin to understand that having sex is how babies are made and everytime you have sex you risk that - unprotected is like ASKING for a baby.

Good luck.

Im 15 and im pregnant.
The kids dad is now going out with my bestmate.
he dont want nothing to do with the baby.
My mum and dad dont know yet.
and im now 1 month gone :/
i dont know what to do either.

Okay
Im 13 and I could be pregnant too
Its a tough choice about abortion
Okay i was at the doctors yesterday to get my pill and I was asking about it and my doctor said that I have to take a pregnancy test in about 2 - 3 weeks dont leave it too long because after months you cant get an abortion
but apparantly you dont show any signs of being pregnant untill about 4 or 5 months
I suggest you go to your doctor and ask about it they dont have the rights to tell parents or anything they just suggest that you tell your mum or something :-P
Good luck and I hope your not pregnant x

I think you should be ashamed of youself - tbh i think its your problem if you get kicked out because you went and had sex at astupid age, so i Hope you are pregnant and that he gets booted outta his house as well as you because i am planning to do that sh*t wen i am old enough, first i am concentrating on skl and then get a good job have fun as a teen and then set up a good life then settle down, Slag. >;)

Babyqirl,their riqht youu aree too younqq for sex,But dont qet depressed off of it.Consider it as a lesson learned,A lesson you'll be able to teattch.Second just because you havent had your period doesnt mean your preqant,at your aqe periods are nor reqular yet,that means they dont comee every month until your older

You are way to young to be having sex in the first place. I knowother peopleyour age might tell you that it is great, but it isn't and is is usually really painful for girls especially. And I know you think your in love but your so young everything feels like love. If you are pregnant and you don't think you can tell your mom you need to write a note or leave a message on her phone saying that you are. Tell your boyfriend he is going to be a father also he deserves to know. If your parents want you to get an abortion you need to stand up for your beliefs and do what ever it takes to keep that baby alive.

hey i need advice i just had sex for the first time i told him to use a condom but he said were fine then he diches me then i get a txt sayin idk if i pulled it out in time and idk if im preggers im soo scared:'(

i understand how you feel...im 15,and i think i may be pregnant.
+tbh,people shouldnt be telling you that your too young to have sex,as its your decision..your mistake?
pregnancy tests can be wrong it depends when you take it...you should take them 5 days before your period due date? 
im not much help as im in the same situation and i seriously dont know what to do myself,but i think the best thing you should do is tell one of your parents?
yes,it will be hard for them to take in...but then atleast they can deal with the fact you have had sexual intercourse and can be there for you what ever the result.



GOOD LUCK.

Hey There My Names Riley , I'm Thriteen Also , And I Don't Know If I'm Preggers Or Not. I'm Very Scared , And Lost, And I Know That If I Am , I Will Be In BigTrouble. I Would Get Every Privliage Tooken Away, I Don't Care About That, I'm Just Scared About The Reactions . And I Don't Want My Boyfriend To Get Hurt , Or Punished Because Of OUR Actions. And Yes I Understand That It Is A Very Young Age, But Please I Just Need Help. I'm Lost ! And Way To Scared To Tell My Parents. I First Started My Period On July 4, 2012 And Had Butt Sex With Him Like The 20th. But Yet Here I Am On August 16, 2012 Wondering If His Sperm Got Close To My Vaginal Area. And I Dont Know. I'm Very Shy. But I Was Looking On A Whole Bunch Of Websites To See If I Could Tell If I Was Pregnant Without Taking A Test. And School Is On The 20th , And I Don't Wanna Be Pregnant In School. But Yet. I'm Here Crying Because I Don't Know What To Do. Name Calling Isn't Nessary So Please , Don't Be Rude, Thanks. HELP Me Please!!!!

Me I just lost mine and im scared I might be a prego I dont know what to do help

do what you think is best .