That you could go there is amazing. I would never have dared. Nudism must have been very important to you! I've never been. Do you mean to say that all the boys stay nude even if they have a hard-on?
Loading...
Being nude was not a problem, I was so used to it. A naked body is natural, not necessarily sexual. Anyway, as a boy, it was just holidays and fun and I was glad I didn't have to bother with clothes. But with circumcision and later erections there came a new awareness and I had actually to learn that it was not sexual, not even the erection. When I was 15, with that girl I was writing about, we joked that since I was already hard at least I didn't have to worry about getting hard when we kissed in public or when I saw her, for of course to me the fact that she was naked was very sexual. As for the other boys, some get dressed when adolescent, not necessarily because of erections, but simply because they are not comfortable with their body. But most stay naked, yes. But before I had the problem myself I hadn't been aware of the fact that they had erections. And there are a lot of men and boys with penises which are in fact semi-hard but you take no notice. My own penis varied a lot. When I masturbated in the morning it was soft for a couple of hours, otherwise I spent most of the morning between semi-hard and hard state. So once morning wood was gone it was a constant up and down which usually after some time settled as a new lasting erection and then it was back to up and down. One of the sons of the friends of my parents had his penis almost vertical when he was hard. I would have liked that it was less obvious from a distance and it looked actually supercool.
Loading...
we don't regret not having a vertical erection too much; my friend has it and yes it looks supercool, but it actually completely sucks when you have sex
Loading...
Cant see why it would be less shame to have a vertical erection, on the contrary you get all the more stares when it's getting hard and once its hard you also get stares. I was called flagpole because of it even by guys who had erections themseves .
Loading...
I can identify! I've never had the nudist experience, but I was always hard when I was a kid. My mom even cut the lining out of boxer style swim trunks because she thought I'd be more comfortable. It never bothered me until my teenage years and then only for a while. I always had an erection or at least a semi, and got teased about it, and was nicknamed Boner by some of the other guys. I think you just get used to things like that though. I stopped letting it embarrass me because there really wasn't a choice - I couldn't keep from being erect most of the time and couldn't really hide it even in jeans, so I learned to live with it and didn't let it bother me. Nothing vertical about mine, it sticks straight out in front of me for the most part with a little bit of an upward curve, and I can't comfortably tuck it into my waistband. Finally in my early twenties it got a little better - at least it wasn't constant, although still fairly frequent. I think I was lucky to learn to deal with it though because I had an injury a while back that has left me with what amounts to a permanent semi erection. It's called non- ischemic priapism, caused by a very hard blow to the perineum (a dirt bike accident) and yes there's surgery for it, but it comes with the risk of impotence. I'm about 75% erect at my most flaccid, but I won't risk the surgery - I'm not interested in having to have a penile implant at 30 years old. The point of this is that erections are nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of! I swim, I run, I go to the gym, and I don't care what anyone thinks. I know some people make assumptions about me and that's okay - let them. Some women think I'm some sort of weirdo but others think it's nice, including my girlfriend. It's just an erection and all guys get them - we shouldn't be judged by that.
Loading...
I think most women like to see erections and the ones who say they don't are lying.
Loading...
I don't know if I'd say most women, I think some are put off by it. On the other hand, my girlfriend would love it if I was 100% erect all the time. (I'm glad I'm not.) On balance I'd say you're mostly right, though.
Loading...
Hi. For the first time I spent 2 weeks on a nude beach. There was a man who regularly had a hardon. He was maybe 30-35 years old and came with a woman. We were always at the same spot and they always chose a spot close to ours. When they arrived and he undressed he was usually soft but after some time he got hard. Sometimes he was soft when he got into the water but came out hard or he got hard when walking out of it and back to their towels. He didn't seem ashamed at all because they usually started walking on the beach looking for pebbles after they had had a swim and then he was always hard. Once he had gotten hard he stayed like that for the rest of the afternoon. It was not a semi erection or a little "feel-good" swelling, his penis was standing horizontally at least and most of the times higher than that and clearly pointing upwards and once when he was stanging very close to me I could actually see it throbbing. He behaved very naturally but he was the only adult I saw with an erection during our stay. My husband said he would have liked to have his self-confidence when he used to be a young adult and dealing with frequent erections!
Loading...
I applaud the guy for his confidence. Whatever the reason for his erections, he's apparently used to being hard a lot of the time and doesn't let it stop him from doing what he wants, which is what you have to do. Not that I've been to a nude beach - I haven't - but I don't think it would be too much different than wearing a swimsuit for me, at least in terms of being erect. The swimsuit covers me, yes, but doesn't hide my erection. There's nothing I can do about that so I ignore it, which I'd guess is exactly what your guy at the nude beach was doing.
Loading...
Exactliy. Obviously both of them were not even commenting on it and, accordingly, nobody I believe felt offended by the sight. This Holiday having been my first time at a nude beach, this man's behaviour was quite an experience for me and answered a lot of my questions.
I hadn't thought about the swimsuit, that it doesn't hide a hard-on, but of course it wouldn't. Doesn't hide our nipples either. Nasty thing! lol
I hadn't thought about the swimsuit, that it doesn't hide a hard-on, but of course it wouldn't. Doesn't hide our nipples either. Nasty thing! lol
Loading...
There's really no reason to comment. When that's your "normal" you really don't think about it that much, and secondly why would you draw more attention to it by mentioning it? I do get the occasional question or comment, but it's unusual for that to happen - the positive thing about it being that it gives me the chance to explain that it's the result of an injury, and that there's nothing I can do about it. As far as swimsuits go, obviously I'm not going to wear a speedo or anything that emphasizes it, but I'm not going to be uncomfortable either - there's really no point because all I can do is minimize it a bit at best. Your point about nipples is well taken - what does a woman do? You accept that they're going to show and ignore it. There's really not that much difference - we'd prefer it if things didn't make themselves obvious, but when it's beyond your control you either accept it or stay home and hide.
Loading...
2 weeks and only 1 guy with an erection? You must be kidding! I go to a naturist resort once a year for 7 years now. It's true that erections aren't the norm and aren't as frequent as you'd imagine if you're not familiar with those places. But there are some. There's what you call the "feel good swelling" which can develop into at least a partial erection and this certainly most men experience, at least I always see a lot, maybe 1 out of 5 men has a soft but slightly swollen penis. But I also see regularly half and full erections. The half erections are more frequent of course. I never counted but I'd say that I see at least 15 each day. Full erections are rare but nonetheless I'd say I always see 2 or 3 each day. Plus there are the kids and the adolescent ant the young adults. This year there was a group of 7 boys maybe 18 years old and there were always at least 1 or 2 of them fully erect. The maximum we saw was after a volleyball game in the minutes after they stopped playing 6 of them got an erection
Loading...
That's interesting, but I guess not surprising if you think about it. You just always hear that being erect is a big no-no at a nude beach or resort. I don't think it would bother me - again, a swimsuit doesn't do much to hide my condition anyway - but I'd be more concerned that someone would find it offensive. Not that I care what others think, but I don't particularly want to be the guy who ruins someone else's experience, even if it's really THEIR perception of the situation that's the problem. Anyway, it sounds like if I ignored it everyone else would too for the most part - or am I misinterpreting this? For clarity, I'm talking about a nude beach not a naturist resort, and the chance that I'd actually go there is fairly slim.
Loading...
Yes, you could put it like that. It's no big deal unless you are clearly behaving badly, I mean like the exhibitionist stuff and so. There may be a difference between a beach and a resort though because at a resort of course you start your day nude, do the shopping nude and so on so chances you get hard may be higher and also of course you may want to go out and still have your morning wood. I didn't count those in because at a nude beach the person who wrote could not have witnessed them, but this would easily double the number of erections I use to see because in the morning at the supermarket and in the streets there are always guys with erections both half and full. Of course I paid attention to this because I just happen to be one of them but I can assure you that I've never been or felt offensive to anyone. I usually am hard when I leave the room and I get another 3-5 erectioins during the day, the more relaxed I feel the easier they come. Also after I did some sports I may get hard. No big deal for no one.
Loading...
Thanks for the answer. There's no chance I'd be doing anything exhibitionistic, I'd be ignoring it the same as I do all the time in public. Actually, it sounds like it might be less of an issue than it is in a swimsuit or running shorts or whatever. The point of the questions is that my girlfriend has mentioned going to a nude beach before, although we've never done it. It was never discussed seriously, more like in passing, but if she ever did get serious about it I'll be more at ease with the idea now. It's been a long time since she brought it up though. Thanks again!
Loading...