When I read this I feel I've been somewhat dephased. I remember my first morning erections when I was 7-8. They were fun. With puberty I had occasionally an erection during the day, from the age of 12 on I'd say, more from age 14 on, but not abnormally many. Maybe 2 or 3, often short ones. Of course I felt ashamed when they happende when I was nude with others, as after swimming lessons or such. But it was only with the end of puberty that I suddnely got this massive problem with morning erections which wouldn't go away or whihc would only give way to partial erections which could last for hours where the degree of hardness constantly changed. And I had also other full erections which popped up during the day and again transformed themselves into partial erections changing from hanging more or less down to standing horizontally and coming back time and again to standing fully. This started when I was 17-18 and the problem diminished (without disappearing entirely) only in my late 20ies. I would say the toughest period was between 20 and 28. But this time it was fine with me. I didn't have to undress in school anymore and in the changing rooms in the sports club I was fine with it. I was a good player and my mates didn't make fun of me, they called me "rocket" but that I felt was kind of gratifying. With the girls I loved to have them at least notice my erection and I looked for occasions to actually show it to them. So I was often wearing large boxer shorts as underwear in order for my penis to stick out under my pants and encouraged questions about my penis and when I was at home with girls with who I'd talked about my condition I undressed as often as possible.
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Because of a short frenulum and a tight foreskin I got circumcised when I started to have erections at the age of 12. My glans was of cause highly sensitive and at the beginning I was in a state of almost permanent arousal. Later the mucosa of my glans turned to normal skin and the sensitivity diminished until it was completely gone. But that took 6-7 years. So when my penis developed, during puberty, it was erect and a doctor told me that has caused the cavernous bodies' muscles to be very weak and therefore they are very easily filled with blood even today. So even if I have less erections as I used to have I still have at least 4-5 erections each day, some days much more. But adolescent I went from hard to semi-hard and back to hard again 3 times or more each hour. It was only when I was at home and stayed naked, without the clothes stimulating my glans that I managed to lose the erection completely for some time. But when I had to move a lot when dressed, for example when playing tennis, I got regularly aroused to the point that I ejaculated. At the beginning I felt ashamed of cause but I learned to live with it.
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Maybe you'd have been exactly the same without circumcision or if you'd had it as a child. My foreskin was too tight just like yours and it had to be removed when I was 13. Unlike you my glans became keratinized in a couple of months and the sensitivity had diminished greatly after half a year. Before that it was as a matter of fact unbearable. My parents had thought of having me wear a condom in order to prevent any direct contact with clothes and also to save me the embarrassment from ejaculations but the doctor advised against it. Anyway, my cavernous bodies certainly didn't change because of a few months of erections and yet I went on having frequent erections after my glans had lost its sensitivity. Of course they diminished greatly in number and duration but they became more frequent again when I was 15-16 years old. My son had also a tight foreskin and we had it removed when he was only 5. So for him there was no question of arousal at the time and when he entered puberty his glans was almost completely desensitized. Nonetheless when he was 11 he started having regularly an erection in the morning and when he was 12 he already had one each morning and some during the day. From age 14 on they became really problematic. So you see circumcision has probably nothing to do with it.
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wait a moment, do you guys say that circumcision makes the penis become desensitized?!
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to some degree yes of course, you loose the nerves which are in the foreskin and the glans transforms from a mucous membrane into regular skin and gets a thicker skin, so yes, you loose some sensitivity
it really depends and it is different for each person but don't be alarmed: you're still able to feel pleasure;)
it really depends and it is different for each person but don't be alarmed: you're still able to feel pleasure;)
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Hi, I've been circumcized as a kid and tis true my penis hasnt been very sensitive when I entered puberty but it didnt stop my getting hard. There were boys in my school who were hard more than me, like 1 in 8. and 2 in 11. and 12. grade who were hard like every time I saw them naked but I think I was still amongst those who were hard the most oftn. So circumcizion doesnt stop it or Id know lol.
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Our son (15 1/2) is ashamed of his erections, says the other boys laugh at him and told the girls he was gay because he gets erections in the changing rooms with other boys around. I have no experience of this kind. When adolescent I had erections but they were no big deal and others had erections too. Our son asked me about his erections already more than a year ago, he felt he had too many but I told him that was normal during puberty. Some months later he still complained about his frequent erections and we asked him to tell us when they happen because we wanted to show him that they are not that frequent. But it seemed that he has up to 15 and even more erections a day which is really a lot. He manages to hide them quite well with tight underwear but he feels very uncomfortable that way. So we told him it would pass and that if he'd be more comfortable he'd feel free to undress at home. He didn't want to at first but a couple of months later he asked if he still could go naked and he started doing it. So we noticed that he has an erection every morning which lasts for at least half an hour, sometimes even more. After that he gets a lot of full erections which last I'd say from 1 to 5 minutes. In between his penis stays half-erect most of the time, standing from a 60° angle to nearly horizontal. We would like to help him but don't know how. I know he's masturbating all right. We never spoke about it but you hear him sometimes. What else could he do?
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from a girl's point of view: a hard-on is beautiful, it may even be just that, but sure it's sexy too!! don't hide, feel happy guys! all of you! come out with your penis standing! I've got 2 brothers, the one older than me used to be hard very often without hiding at home at least, the one younger was hard less often but tried to hide it, he had more or less forgotten about his elder brother, but I tried to get him to accept it. My first boyfriend got also very easily hard. So I had the imperssion that all adolescent boys were hard. For me it was part of the thing and it was beautiful. Later I understood that most boys are not like that. I'm glad I was around some who were.
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I agree: boys who are hard is the most cutest thing. I was 14 when my brother started t got hard and asked him to get naked as often as possible. Later when I was already living with a friend he came to stay with us for a couple of weeks and my friend was less often hard and actually annoyed. lol
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never feel ashamed, but it's more easy said than done i know
I started to have erections when 12, they became frequent and it started to be a problem when I was 14 and unable to stay soft for a reasonable period of time, i got hard for no reason at all and of course all the more so if there was a reason, when I had to undress for ex (which was enought to get me actually aroused)
I was lucky nobody made fun of me and I was able to come to terms with it. By the time i was 16 I felt a tease with my hard penis.
I started to have erections when 12, they became frequent and it started to be a problem when I was 14 and unable to stay soft for a reasonable period of time, i got hard for no reason at all and of course all the more so if there was a reason, when I had to undress for ex (which was enought to get me actually aroused)
I was lucky nobody made fun of me and I was able to come to terms with it. By the time i was 16 I felt a tease with my hard penis.
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I had never really that problem. I used to have morning wood which I got rid of by masturbating and I had occasionally unwanted boners when I was 13/14, but it wasn't frequent. Maybe it was because I masturbated every morning. But some boys at school got hard easily and sometimes made a contest out of it who would be the first to be hard in the changing room or the longest. The way I remember it there were at least 5 or 6 who were hard like that. For them it was a group thing so there was no shame quite the contrary. They even teased the others saying that they were still babies or impotent. Maybe that's a way for all of you to help yourselves.
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For me puberty and boners forced me to change my clothing habits. I used to wear sweatpants and boxer shorts and at the beginning there was no problem I had wood only in the morning and sometimes my penis got slightly swollen but nothing to be worried about even if that way it got kind of outlined in the pants. I had my first unwanted wood in public when I was already 14. It was in school while I was sitting. I managed to hide it by crossing my legs and so but the more I tried that the more of course I got the blood staunched into it. In the end I needed to get up. I tried to make a casual move tucking it behind the elastic band but I failed and there I stood with my tent pole. After that nightmare I changed permanently for jeans.
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I changed for jeans before an accident like that happened, so I managed fairly well. Anyway my erections were not that disturbing because not that frequent Occasionally I was hard in the changing room, but what the heck. My brother had no problem at all. Once he had masturbated in order to get rid of his morning wood his penis sometimes got slightly bigger but without getting erect. My sister's first boyfriend got very easily erect, but it was more fun than a problem and my sister was very proud of him for it.
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My greatest shame was at a nudist resort where we spent our holidays. I have been circumcized when I was 11 because I didn't have enough foreskin and that summer I had to deal with the fact that my glans was permanently visible and I was already self-conscious. But when I was 13 I started to have erections. That summer I had a few but short ones which I managed to deal with. A year after they had turned into quite a problem. I masturbated as often as possible but of course i coulnd't do it whenever I had an erection and anyway not in public so there was nothing to be done against the erections which happened during daytime when we were outside our apartment. My parents tried to explain that it was natural and also their friends were very kind and their own sons had occasionally erections but I felt not as often as I did. My parents offered me to get dressed but taht I didn't want either sinc everybody was nude also the other boys. Gradually I noticed that I really wasn't alone but that there were other boys who had sometimes erections also older ones acting absolutely naturally. In the end I managed to accept it and to masturbate less and to go out in the morning with my erection and even to laugh with the others once when we had all erections at the same time. The year after I met a girl for the summer and the situation was completely different, we walked together and I felt having an erction completely natural.
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