how did you deel with everyone see your erection in swimmingtrunks? I dont care if others see my erection like in chnaging room but I dye of shame if they see it thorougn clotes
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Exactly my problem. I try to hide my erections (I have less now, I will be 24 next week, but still) but there are situations where this is impossible and then I prefer to be nude. But it's still complicated because I don't like others to witness me getting an erection but then again I prefer this to having a visible bulge in my slip or swimming trunks or whatever.
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Hi, I'm 24 and I've got 2 brothers (well actually 1 brother and 1 half-brother), my real brother is ok, he's 22, i've seen him with a hard-on occasionnally but nothing like the condition you're writing about, whereas my half-brother who's 14 has a real bad time with his hard-ons. He tries to hide them but of cause everyone knows they're there. There are a lot of things he stopped to do because of them, like staying in his pyjama in the morning or going swimming or coming to my place where he would need to share my bedroom. I look for something helpful to say to him. I don't want him not to have a normal life because of this.
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It may be especially difficult if your brother feels he's the only one having erections like that. I've had my share of erections as a teenager but I had 2 elder brothers who were the same and so when I started puberty I already expected them to happen and I took it as something normal. At school also there was another boy who had very often a erection in the changing rooms and I had a cousin my age who had erections. Besides at home I wasn't the one with the most erections so there again I had no reason to feel embarrassed. It's a pity your other brother has no frequent erections, he could have made your brother feel at ease. Maybe you could read some of the commentaries posted here to him in order to show him that he's not alone.
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Yes I agree. It's difficult if you're alone or if you feel you're alone with it. I was alone and my parents were no support in this matter. Then when I was already 16 another boy arrived in the swimming team. He was only 14 but he had a full erection the 1. day and didn't anything to hide it. That day I had no erection but seeing his I got hard myself and he only grinned. Later we were able to talk about it. Your brother should have someone to talk to with a similar situation.
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maybe you could also talk to him yourself and say that there's nothing to be ashamed of. I was like you much older than my brother and when I noticed that he grew ashamed of his body I explained him all there was on a woman's body to be ashamed of also, of course I exaggerated and in the end we had a good laugh. he didnt change his attitude immediately of course but progressively (and i also reminded him o four talk from time to time). He was 13 at the time and he was only beginning to have erections. A year later he told me with much pride one day that in school while he was showering his penis grew erect and someone accused him of being gay and he answered that the other was just impotent or he would have a hard-on also from time to time. I felt very proud of him of course and in school his erections were accepted from then on. It was about time because a few months later still his penis was more or les constantly half-erect and as soon as he undressed he got a full erection. You can cetainly help your brother also if you dare to speak openly about it
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I wrote here already and as I said it was my elder sister who talked to me about these things. She suggested I masturbate in the morning, which eased the erections for some time but not really, but which took care of my ejaculations. Speak to your borther openly, doesn't matter if there's no other guy around with the same condition.
As I wrote my erections started later than others, I was nearly 16 when they became a problem. So maybe I was already psichologicaly stronger but still I felt ashamed. They were visible but I kind of accepted it. (This is alos the answer to the question someone asked how I felt with everyone seeing my erection in my swimmingtrunks.) And the fact that my sister talked about it without any shame and also that my parents didn't criticize me for it was a great help of course.
As I wrote my erections started later than others, I was nearly 16 when they became a problem. So maybe I was already psichologicaly stronger but still I felt ashamed. They were visible but I kind of accepted it. (This is alos the answer to the question someone asked how I felt with everyone seeing my erection in my swimmingtrunks.) And the fact that my sister talked about it without any shame and also that my parents didn't criticize me for it was a great help of course.
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Hi. how did it go? Did you get a chance to talk to your brother? Being able to talk about it is important. I was lucky when I had my own stiff period, we were 8 boys in my class, from age 12 to 15 our class stayed the same and 4 of us had erection issues. 1 had already started to be most of the time half hard when we were 12, when we were 13 he and another boy were always hard or at least half hard (I say half hard but that means that their penis stood almost horizontally), at that time I started to get hard more often myself and when we were 14 me and another one were very often hard also, not as often as the other 2 but still. As a result nobody had to hide and the other 4 were almost occasionnally hard. When I read all this hear I feel lucky.
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My younger brother had it he was 12 when it started and it was still fun but then it became a shame for him and he masterbated a lot when at home but our mum wanted him to stop and she controlled him very striclty. He had ejaculation in his pants every morning but he said it was just wet dream but I know it was not only that but it was also because it was the only way he culd masterbate. When he was 14 it helped not anymore because he had it back an hour or so after masterbating but when he masterbated not he often ejaculated during day so he at least continued for that. But there were years where he had it nearly all the time and he had shame but he had it. I don't know how it is today, he's 22 now.
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Well as I wrote when he started to have it he was 11-12 and we were kids and it was fun and also it was not that frequent and his penis was of course very small but when his penis grow he got shame about it. Its true weve talked about it sometimes and hes tolled me he had shame and I supported him with masterbation because that was liberating to him. So I left our bedroom early so that he could masterbate alone. Also I had to see it when he had it because we had only one bedroom at one moment he tried to hide it from me also but I told him not to have shame at least not with me so he was free but its true he was 14 and after he had it all the time in the evening and in the morning it was just his normal state. After I left home weve not tolled about it.
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Why did you stop talking about it? When you left home was he still erect all the time?
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When I was 16 a friend (girl) invited me to her house. Her parents had a swimming pool and we spent the afternoon in swimming clothes, she had a bikini and I had briefs. After some time I got a boner. I had masturbated before seeing her in order to make sure I would not get one but I got one all the same. It had to try to put my penis sideways, but there my speedo was barely large enough to cover it. I tried not to move because I was afrait it simplly pop out. She noticed it of course and said something like "nice, i like it", which got me totally aroused. then she asked if I wanted to take it off, and at that moment i was'nt ashamed anymore and i badly wanted to be naked in fornt of her so i took it off. We didn't have sex or anything and she remained clothed but it was one of the hottest moments in my life.
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Nice story! I remember at a summer camp where showers were not separated and you were supposed to respect a timetable so that boys and girls didn't get mixed, I used the shower out of schedule because I thought there was nobody and there was a boy and he had a boner and it was the first time I saw it and it was nice! He was surprised and wanted to cover and go but I made a sign that he should say nothing and stay and I undressed too and we showered in different corners. Nothing happened except that we looked at each other all the time and I believe we were both very turned on but we did nothing not even masturbate. Nice experience. Boners are so beautiful.
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That is totally true: boners are so beautiful. the first I saw was that of the brother of my best friend at the beach. We were 17 and he was only 13 1/2 and not allowed to stay alone at home so we had to take him with us because her parents were away for the day. You could tell he was very excited by the way he behaved. He had a boner all the time we were there and when he changed we both could see it. When he had his shorts on I thought it was his shorts holding his penis upward but it was really his penis which was curved and almost standing vertically. I "rewarded" him by showing my breasts.
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