I'm ashamed of my erect penis

I'm 21, my brother is 23 now. He's still in touch with the 2 who are his age but we lost track of the siblings and of the younger one (I can't even remember his name!) They remained naturists and last year my brother and his girlfriend split and they asked him to go with them and their friends on a holiday trip and he asked me to come along and so we went the 6 of us and for old times sake we spent a couple of days in a naturist resort. I hadn't seen my bro naked for at least 4 years. Anyway: he had less erections, they all had less erections. My brother usually stayed hard for 5-10 minutes after waking up, and then his penis started changing between partially erect and fully erect with the full erections growing ever shorter and less frequent until it came down to completely flaccid. On the first morning one of the other ones was flaccid already, the other one was half erect and grew hard when he saw me. Luckily his friend laughed about it and asked him if it was me doing this to him but it was obvious she wasn't serious but he told me afterwards that it had been me who triggered it! He remembered the talks about my areolas and since we last met they had lost their puffiness but had still grown larger and darker. During the day he got occasionally an erection, my brother had one after lunch, the other one stayed flaccid all the day. On the 2. morning when we went outside my bro was again between half and fully erect and stayed so for an hour or so until his penis calmed down. The others were both flaccid and only my "admirer" had a few beginnings of an erection but nothing really visible until the end of the morning when his penis eventually stood nearly horizontally. And then late afternoon we were standing in a bar and the 3. got his 1. erection and just like when they were adolescents the other 2 followed this time.

Nothing to be ashamed of man! I'm 22 and my penis calmed down but from 14 to 19/20 I had frequent boners but you'll learn to deal with it. I tried to hide them for a while and then just gave up and let them show. My younger brother is 17 and he learned from me not to hide his boners from the beginning but he really likes to show them off, leaving the bathroom naked when we stay at friends or familys and so on.

I once had a bf who was completely exhibitionist.He got hard whenever he was naked and made sure other peoople saw him that way. We were 17 at the time, we split after a few monts. It was at the same time fun and frightening for ther was no way to tell wher he would stop.

I completely understand him. From 12 to 18 my parents lived in the south of France and there was a nude beach. At the beginning when I started having erections I hid them but I also fantasized about the nude beach. One day I took my bike and went there on my own. I had an erection while on my way and when I arrived I felt very excited but I lost my erection strangely enough. I was actually panicking completely but I took off my clothes. After an hour or so my penis turned hard again. I returned there the day after and I was hard from the beginning. I liked the feeling of showing off my erect penis instead of hiding it. I invited a girl from my class to go to the beach with me and while we were on our way I offered to go to the nude beach for fun but she wouldn't come along. The next day it was she who asked to go and we went and got naked and I was hard and it was great to have her witness it.

I guess there are only that many possible answers to the problem: either you feel ashamed or you show off. There's no half-way with hard-ons. When adolescent I was showing off (not right away though but from 15 or so years on) while my brother felt ashamed of his hard-ons. I was especially showing off to one girl in my class making sure she noticed I was hard when we were walking together but she never acknowledged anything until years later when one day we were supposed to go swimming and she picked me up at home and I changed clothes in front of her.

i was the "victim" of such a boy as you were in my class, at first it felt weird and I didn't know how to react, but he never did anything agressive so it was ok and actually it wa fun also and one day I asked him if he wanted to see my boobs but he said no. (But he asked for it himself a few months later :)
He was doing Nothing special but when we were alone he somehow managed to get his penis out of his briefs so it stuck out Under his pants and sometimes he had it stuck Under his belt so it wouldnt stick out but I could see its tip.
One day but that was before the day I showed him my boobs he did exactly what you did and changed in front of me. I got a little bit scared but again he was not agressive at all. He never talked about his erections either, but I can say that he was erect most of the time.

I suppose I was just like that. I never thought that she might feel that I was aggressive or whatever.

well just imagine somebody walks you home every day and he's got a tent built up in his pants and we were friends and we also were alone in my house or his house so there could have happened a lot of stuff
We were 17 when he changed in front of me. It was not the first penis I saw and not the first erect one either because I have a brother but nonetheless it was impressive and of course you think that he might just abuse you

I never thought of it that way and she never said anything and did not try to avoid me either. The day I changed in front of her we were 18 and I put on trousers without briefs and she asked me if I was not going to put on swimming trunks but I told her they were in my bag and that was that. She seemed to take it as Something more or less natural. A few years later she was staying for 2 weeks in the city I lived in and came to my place and then I asked her if she would be offended if I was naked or at least bottomless because of my erections. She said no, and only then did we talk about my erections and what had become my exhibitionism.

Don't worry I'm sure it was allright with her especially if you talked openly about it. Just as it was, in the end, allright with me!

You guys are weird! For me the adolescent erections meant the end of boxers and sweatpants! And especially the combination of them lol! One day coming home from school I had a stiff one growing while on the bus. Up to then I had had stiffies in the mornings but not during daytime. I was only 13 and my penis wasn't very big and the erections not very strong but nonetheless you saw I had a problem. I Nothing to put in front of it I had left all my stuff at school and I was wearing sweatpants and boxer and a t-shirt. I fiddled with it and tried to pin it behind the boxer's elastic but when I got up it fell out of my boxer and the elastic was only helping to hold it upright so it was worse than ever and i quickly put my boxer up and went home like that. My mom noticed it and only said "well it's time to buy you some briefs" and that was the end to the story.

As a child I had only briefs and I didn't usually wear sweatpants. So when my penis started to get erect I had not the same problem. But eventually my erections grew fairly frequent. There was no day without 2 or 3 of them and often 10 or more. Some days it was like a mechanism working once every hour or so and some other days it went hard during the morning and during the afternoon and varied between full hard and a little less hard for a couple of hours. When I was 17 I felt the urge to have people notice. I had my 1. friend at the time and she had asked me to tell her exactly when I was hard and when we were just the 2 of us in private she would ask me to undress and go naked or to keep only my t-shirt. She was extrmely turned on by my erect penis and eventually I was turned on by it myself. So during one period of holidays I put on sweatpants or boxer shorts and let the thing happen in public. She wasn't believing her eyes when I came to her place like that the 1. time. We had a lot of fun with my erections that summer. So I can understand the people who write that they became exhibitionists. It clearly was my case.

Worst period of my life! Erections started when I was 13 and became a huge problem after a few months when I would get a hard on for no reason at all and all the time. My penis was constantly going from part erect to full erect. When at worst (age 15-17) it would stay hard for up to half an hour, lose a little bit of its hardness and go up again until I ejaculated spontaneously. Then it would calm down somewhat. It was a complete nightmare at school, especially during swimming class and in general in the changing rooms, but also at home where my sister (1 year younger) would pester me to hide it away completely. My parents tried to talk her out of this but she remained pretty angry at me. I felt relieved whenever I could take off my clothes of course, but I only did so when in complete privacy.

You should have tried to understand your sister and maybe she would have understood you too. When kids nudity was of course no problem amongst me and my brother. We're 2 years apart but we hit puberty more or less at the same time, I at 10 and he at 12. I was the first one to hide when my breasts started budding. He grew at first some pubic hairs and then his testicles grew making his penis to stick out. It wasn't an erection, it was just the testicles pushing it up. I started to ask him to put it away and he obeyed. A year later or so I was still a hiding freak, trying to preserve my intimacy by all means but he started getting erections and one day I saw him in his pyjamas and his penis was clearly erect. I called him all names and our parents heard me and came and we had a talk. It was agreed that he should not show it intentionnally but that I had to allow him some freedom. In the following months I saw him often like that and I got used to it. Then I walked accidentally into the bathroom while he was showering. He had an erection. Later I learned it wasn't a full one, because it only stood horizontally. His penis wasn't very long yet, maybe 7 or 8 cm but it was impressive nonetheless. I stood and looked. Then he noticed me and tried to hide it but I told him it was ok. It was a shock to me but a positive one. So little by little he dared to be naked again in front of me. When I turned 13 my areolas swelled and my nipples became tender and they got hard and hurt whenever something touched them. At first I tried lose tshirts but in the end I preferred to give in and asked to be allowed to get out of clothes at home in order to be comfortable. Over the weeks my nipples had a tendancy to get hard more and more often and it was a spectacular change from my swollen areolas to my hard nipples and in the end we were both hard most of the time, his penis and my nipples and we couldn't but laugh at it. But it had taken me 3 years to reach this stage of acceptance. You should have left your sister time and freedom.

I suppose it's a big difference to be younger or older than your brother! When my brother started to have erections I was already 18 and my sister was 19 and had already left home for university. So I was able to comfort him and tell him it was normal and all right. Both I and my sister had tender areolas from the very beginning of puberty and wanted to get out of our tops as soon as we were back from school. Strangely though there is a 15 months difference between us we developed more or less simultaneously. For our brother there was no problem at the time because he was of course only 5 and our topless time lasted only for 2 years.